We had Myles' Meet the Teacher last night for preschool. His teacher is Mrs. Stromenger, and the aide is Mrs. Hubbard. He seemed to do well, maybe just a bit shy and akward. I had to bring Gina with me though and she loved it. She is the opposite of Myles socially.
It's a bit overwhelming with all the paperwork we received and feeling like there is so much to do, but I think it'll be good for him to get back on track. He goes for one hour on Thursday, and then from 12:30-3 every Tuesday and Thursday.
I can't believe it's the last year before Kindergarten!! And really, if it wasn't for his late birthday, he'd already be there. Time goes so fast.
Cheyenne, Cindy's daughter, lost her first tooth over the weekend and starts Kindergarten this Friday. It was a big (and sort of sad) week for Cindy. And the fact she's only 6 months older than Myles is a reality check to me. When they were babies 6 months seemed like so much, but not now.
The teachers did have a little "gift bag" for each of the kids with a pencil and note pad and his favorite...bubbles...so that was a big hit. He's already been for a year, so I don't know why it's making me nervous...I feel like it's my first day of school all over again. New school years always did make me nervous...I guess it's no different now that I'm the parent.
A silly story about last night...mom had asked Myles to call him when he got home. So he knows how to do that by himself now because her number is programmed as a speed dial in my cell phone. Well, Mom was away from her phone, so dad answered.
Myles got the most disappointed look on his face and said "I didn't call you" and hung up. Not nice, I know....but sort of funny the way it happened. No one can replace his G-ma. Not even Grandpa.
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
And he strikes again....
Myles: Do you like how it's so sunny and pretty and warm out today?
Me: Yes, I do.
Myles: I thought you would.
Me: Yup, it makes me happy when the weather is like this.
Myles: Then why have you been yelling at me all day?
To smack him or hug him???
Me: Yes, I do.
Myles: I thought you would.
Me: Yup, it makes me happy when the weather is like this.
Myles: Then why have you been yelling at me all day?
To smack him or hug him???
Monday, September 1, 2008
A conversation with Myles
Myles: (totally out of the blue) How long was I in heaven with God before I was born?
Me: I don't know, Myles.
Him: Why don't you ever know anything?
M: Because you ask complicated questions for a four year old. Maybe we'll just have to ask God when we get to see him again some day.
H: I need to go talk to God now.
M: Why is that?
H: I need to tell him to quit making it rain on me.
M: Well, it's not just about you, sweetie. That's his way of watering things and making sure they grass and trees and flowers have enough water.
H: Why, so they can grow?
M: yes, exactly.
H: Well, why do you want it to grow? Everytime the grass grows daddy just has to cut it.
And that, my friends, is the simple logic of a four-year old!
Me: I don't know, Myles.
Him: Why don't you ever know anything?
M: Because you ask complicated questions for a four year old. Maybe we'll just have to ask God when we get to see him again some day.
H: I need to go talk to God now.
M: Why is that?
H: I need to tell him to quit making it rain on me.
M: Well, it's not just about you, sweetie. That's his way of watering things and making sure they grass and trees and flowers have enough water.
H: Why, so they can grow?
M: yes, exactly.
H: Well, why do you want it to grow? Everytime the grass grows daddy just has to cut it.
And that, my friends, is the simple logic of a four-year old!
Sunday, August 31, 2008
A must share
This girl goes to our church and is part of our worship band. Today we were blessed with a solo she performed of Give it to Jesus, and I had to share. It is so amazing.
I'm trying to get the lyrics copied here, but in the meantime, take a listen.
http://www.arethachapman.com/
EDIT:--- I have done a lot of searching and have not been able to find the lyrics. However, I have found out that she does have her own CD out, and the song I mentioned is even on Itunes. I highly recommend checking her out!
I'm trying to get the lyrics copied here, but in the meantime, take a listen.
http://www.arethachapman.com/
EDIT:--- I have done a lot of searching and have not been able to find the lyrics. However, I have found out that she does have her own CD out, and the song I mentioned is even on Itunes. I highly recommend checking her out!
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Flat tire
That's what the Malibu has. Derrick worked until 1am last night, had a 9 am interview in Mason that lasted a full two hours, and then they sent him to go visit a store in Clilfton. He was there for a while and came home to change and come into work for the night. As he went to leave he saw the Malibu had a flat.
Please pray and keep your fingers crossed it can be repaired and doesn't need to be replaced.
It's been quite a busy day (week) and will only continue...tomorrow is the weekly boy time (which Gina is allowed to take part in), so he's home with the kids and will be up just a few short hours after he finally falls asleep to take care of the dynamic duo all day. Fortunately for him, he can run on much less sleep than I can.
Reality TV has nothing on our lives. :)
Please pray and keep your fingers crossed it can be repaired and doesn't need to be replaced.
It's been quite a busy day (week) and will only continue...tomorrow is the weekly boy time (which Gina is allowed to take part in), so he's home with the kids and will be up just a few short hours after he finally falls asleep to take care of the dynamic duo all day. Fortunately for him, he can run on much less sleep than I can.
Reality TV has nothing on our lives. :)
Duct Tape
Yes, that is what the sitter had to resort to at nap time. She had to put a piece of duct tape over the tabs of Gina's diaper so she couldn't get it off.
Gina wasn't happy, but she did stay fully clothed.
Let's just hope she outgrows this love of being naked.
Gina wasn't happy, but she did stay fully clothed.
Let's just hope she outgrows this love of being naked.
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
The latest "episodes" with the kids
Gina. Oh, Gina.
Let me just say that my kids are so much like me. I don't know if that's good or not, but they both inherited different parts of my personality (and not necessarily the best parts).
Gina...the sweet, smart, loving, funny girl. She hates to upset you, but I think she does enjoy teasing you. She will cry if she thinks you're angry, but she sure does find new ways to test us.
The "napping issues" continued today as the kids returned to Cindy's. No playing with the contents of her diaper, no lipstick, no falling in a hamper. Just a totally naked Gina giggling and laughing, and laying on a soaked blanket.
Yes...totally naked. She took off all of her clothes...shirt, shorts and diaper...with no help. How does she do this? And why? I guess we'll be investing in some onesies with snaps and see if little Houdini gets out of that.
She is also learning all of her body parts...eyes, ears, nose, mouth, feet, etc. She's picked it up so quickly and loves that she has found another way to be center of attention and make us laugh. I want her to stay my baby forever, but seeing what this girl becomes will make it worth letting her grow up.
Myles. Sweet, silly, smart, Myles. He has inherited my food issues. When he's having a lot of issues with his SI or anxiety, he'll only eat certain textures...smooth. That means applesauce, yogurt, pancakes, bologna. He gags on food (always has) and his food issues have gotten increasingly worse at the sitters (this happens in phases, but this is the longest yet) to the point where he just cries through lunch and refuses to eat anything. For weeks. Which wouldn't be such a big deal if he wasn't also like me in that when he gets tired or hungry he is CRANKY. There is a point in which you basically have to force him to eat to switch his mood around. He cries at night worried about what he'll have to eat the next day. He is a little kid with a lot of anxiety, and food is one of his main sensory issues. And about the only thing he's able to control at this point in his life.
This morning I caught him in the bathroom, sitting on the vanity, and "doing" his hair. He wanted it spikey. He told me when it dries it will fall and he won't like it like that so he'll have to re-wet it. Oh my. Do they really get concerned about their looks at 4?
And where does he get this memory??? Yesterday Derrick and I had to go to the mall to run and errand. On the way there he asked where we were going and I told him. He says...oh yes. I remember the mall. They have shiny floors, but that's okay. I used to be scared of the shiny floor...I thought I would fall, but I'm much braver now, so it's okay". Uh...alrighty then. Kid hasn't been to the mall in a LONG time. But he did always hate the floors.
It's so funny how Myles and Gina are so similar yet so different, even at a young age. I love watching them grow and develop and learn. I love seeing them change each day. They are such a blessing.
Let me just say that my kids are so much like me. I don't know if that's good or not, but they both inherited different parts of my personality (and not necessarily the best parts).
Gina...the sweet, smart, loving, funny girl. She hates to upset you, but I think she does enjoy teasing you. She will cry if she thinks you're angry, but she sure does find new ways to test us.
The "napping issues" continued today as the kids returned to Cindy's. No playing with the contents of her diaper, no lipstick, no falling in a hamper. Just a totally naked Gina giggling and laughing, and laying on a soaked blanket.
Yes...totally naked. She took off all of her clothes...shirt, shorts and diaper...with no help. How does she do this? And why? I guess we'll be investing in some onesies with snaps and see if little Houdini gets out of that.
She is also learning all of her body parts...eyes, ears, nose, mouth, feet, etc. She's picked it up so quickly and loves that she has found another way to be center of attention and make us laugh. I want her to stay my baby forever, but seeing what this girl becomes will make it worth letting her grow up.
Myles. Sweet, silly, smart, Myles. He has inherited my food issues. When he's having a lot of issues with his SI or anxiety, he'll only eat certain textures...smooth. That means applesauce, yogurt, pancakes, bologna. He gags on food (always has) and his food issues have gotten increasingly worse at the sitters (this happens in phases, but this is the longest yet) to the point where he just cries through lunch and refuses to eat anything. For weeks. Which wouldn't be such a big deal if he wasn't also like me in that when he gets tired or hungry he is CRANKY. There is a point in which you basically have to force him to eat to switch his mood around. He cries at night worried about what he'll have to eat the next day. He is a little kid with a lot of anxiety, and food is one of his main sensory issues. And about the only thing he's able to control at this point in his life.
This morning I caught him in the bathroom, sitting on the vanity, and "doing" his hair. He wanted it spikey. He told me when it dries it will fall and he won't like it like that so he'll have to re-wet it. Oh my. Do they really get concerned about their looks at 4?
And where does he get this memory??? Yesterday Derrick and I had to go to the mall to run and errand. On the way there he asked where we were going and I told him. He says...oh yes. I remember the mall. They have shiny floors, but that's okay. I used to be scared of the shiny floor...I thought I would fall, but I'm much braver now, so it's okay". Uh...alrighty then. Kid hasn't been to the mall in a LONG time. But he did always hate the floors.
It's so funny how Myles and Gina are so similar yet so different, even at a young age. I love watching them grow and develop and learn. I love seeing them change each day. They are such a blessing.
A sign I saw and loved...
When Derrick and I were headed to the grocery store over the weekend, I saw a church sign that read...
God will always do his part.
But you have to do yours first.
I loved that. It put into words what I already knew, but in simple, down-to-earth terms that summarize it so well.
It was really comforting to me, because it gave me the opportunity to realize that Derrick and I ARE doing our part to make significant changes in our life, and that the rest is up to God and will happen when it's meant to happen.
We can't just sit back and think God is going to work miracles in ourlife if we do nothing for ourselves.
Derrick has several things "in the works" in terms of the job hunt, and that contines to give us hope. He's been staying so busy and working so hard that we know it's just a matter of timing. Already, as he's continued the interviewing process, we've realized that we are glad certain job offers didn't come through. I know he won't get an offer until it's the right one, and then I know everything will make sense.
Same thing applies to the house. I sometimes wonder if it will sell, how things will work out, etc. BUT I am so comforted by the fact that I can RELAX. I know that we have done our part by finding a real estate agent, getting it cleaned up and decluttered, etc, and that now it's up to God. We have done the work that will allow the right outcome to occur. There's not much more we can do. It's up to God and if it's meant to happen it will. We did have an investor put in a (ridiculously low) offer on the house, and have another showing scheduled. I know what happens is what is meant to happen, and that gives me great peace.
I begin to realize more each day that these short term trials are teaching us life long lessons and we are only going to be better off for having gone through them.
God will always do his part.
But you have to do yours first.
I loved that. It put into words what I already knew, but in simple, down-to-earth terms that summarize it so well.
It was really comforting to me, because it gave me the opportunity to realize that Derrick and I ARE doing our part to make significant changes in our life, and that the rest is up to God and will happen when it's meant to happen.
We can't just sit back and think God is going to work miracles in ourlife if we do nothing for ourselves.
Derrick has several things "in the works" in terms of the job hunt, and that contines to give us hope. He's been staying so busy and working so hard that we know it's just a matter of timing. Already, as he's continued the interviewing process, we've realized that we are glad certain job offers didn't come through. I know he won't get an offer until it's the right one, and then I know everything will make sense.
Same thing applies to the house. I sometimes wonder if it will sell, how things will work out, etc. BUT I am so comforted by the fact that I can RELAX. I know that we have done our part by finding a real estate agent, getting it cleaned up and decluttered, etc, and that now it's up to God. We have done the work that will allow the right outcome to occur. There's not much more we can do. It's up to God and if it's meant to happen it will. We did have an investor put in a (ridiculously low) offer on the house, and have another showing scheduled. I know what happens is what is meant to happen, and that gives me great peace.
I begin to realize more each day that these short term trials are teaching us life long lessons and we are only going to be better off for having gone through them.
Sunday, August 24, 2008
I will wait
This song was sung at church today and it really touched me. I thought I'd share the lyrics with you all. It's never the same to read them as it is to hear them beautifully sung, but hopefully you get the gist.
I will wait for you, Jesus
You're the sun in my horizon
All my hopes in you, Jesus
I can see you now arising
(repeat)
There's a wall that stands in front of me
That I know I just can't climb
And like an eagle you will carry me
Its just a matter of the time
I will wait for you, Jesus
You're the son in my horizon
All my hopes in you, Jesus
I can see you now arising
Evil armies all around me
I believe in the word that promises me
So I will wait another day
I will wait for you, Jesus
You're the son in my horizon
All my hopes in you, Jesus
I can see you now arising
(repeat)
I will wait for you
Oh I will wait for you
Oh the doubt may try to come in
The disillusions may try to come in
I believe oh Lord (x3)
In the word that you promised (x3)
I believe it will not end
I believe it will not go
I will wait for you, Jesus
You're the son in my horizon
All my hopes in you, Jesus
I can see you now arising
I will wait for you, Jesus
You're the sun in my horizon
All my hopes in you, Jesus
I can see you now arising
(repeat)
There's a wall that stands in front of me
That I know I just can't climb
And like an eagle you will carry me
Its just a matter of the time
I will wait for you, Jesus
You're the son in my horizon
All my hopes in you, Jesus
I can see you now arising
Evil armies all around me
I believe in the word that promises me
So I will wait another day
I will wait for you, Jesus
You're the son in my horizon
All my hopes in you, Jesus
I can see you now arising
(repeat)
I will wait for you
Oh I will wait for you
Oh the doubt may try to come in
The disillusions may try to come in
I believe oh Lord (x3)
In the word that you promised (x3)
I believe it will not end
I believe it will not go
I will wait for you, Jesus
You're the son in my horizon
All my hopes in you, Jesus
I can see you now arising
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
A trip to the zoo
We went to the zoo yesterday and really enjoyed it. We haven't been able to go like we would like to.
It was the first time that Myles was able to walk the whole thing, so being a mommy, I realized how big he's getting.
It was so much fun as he was actually interested in the animals, really wanted to see them and know about them.
Everything was good until the end when we exited the front of the zoo and walked down to the parking lot before we remembered we actually parked in the back of the zoo. Ugh.
So we walked all the way around. Myles ended up in the stroller and Gina on our shoulders. That's a long walk. Especially when you're hot and tired and the kid's cups have long since been empty. Whew. We really need to plan these things better.
But we had such a fun family weekend between Parky's Farm, the zoo, and Harbin Park. We're trying to spend as much time together as we can as Derrick is getting a second job that will have him working all weekend, so we won't see much of him since he already works nights. But we all had a good time and made a lot of memories.
It was the first time that Myles was able to walk the whole thing, so being a mommy, I realized how big he's getting.
It was so much fun as he was actually interested in the animals, really wanted to see them and know about them.
Everything was good until the end when we exited the front of the zoo and walked down to the parking lot before we remembered we actually parked in the back of the zoo. Ugh.
So we walked all the way around. Myles ended up in the stroller and Gina on our shoulders. That's a long walk. Especially when you're hot and tired and the kid's cups have long since been empty. Whew. We really need to plan these things better.
But we had such a fun family weekend between Parky's Farm, the zoo, and Harbin Park. We're trying to spend as much time together as we can as Derrick is getting a second job that will have him working all weekend, so we won't see much of him since he already works nights. But we all had a good time and made a lot of memories.
A week of new adventures for the kids
Cindy, our regular sitter, is having shoulder surgery this week. So my friend Cassie is watching the kids.
Myles knew all about it, and was happy to go this morning. He started talking to her, telling her everything she wanted to know and then some, so I left feeling good.
She decided to take the kids over to her parents house, which is closer to my work, so I could pick them up there.
When I got there all 4 kids (her 2 included) were hanging outside eating flav-r-ice and loving it.
Myles then started showing me her parents inground pool. He told me they had a board and he jumped off it.
What???
So I looked at Cassie, and yup, sure enough while Gina was sleeping she took the kids swimming. Abbey, her sister, came over as well. They put a floaty bathing suit on Myles and he JUMPED OFF THE DIVING BOARD. 4 TIMES!!!!!!!!!!!!
Holy cow.
She said he doggy paddled from one end of the pool to the next.
My boy. Really? Really!!! Wow!
He came home grabbed one of my beloved circus peanuts (see below) (and yes, my kids now love them too) and walked back to his room.
After a few minutes we wondered what was up.
We found him, sound asleep with one and a half circus peanuts next to him.
He's down for the night. Poor guy had a big day.
I just hope he doesn't remember he had circus peanuts with him when he wakes up. Because they aren't there anymore.
Myles knew all about it, and was happy to go this morning. He started talking to her, telling her everything she wanted to know and then some, so I left feeling good.
She decided to take the kids over to her parents house, which is closer to my work, so I could pick them up there.
When I got there all 4 kids (her 2 included) were hanging outside eating flav-r-ice and loving it.
Myles then started showing me her parents inground pool. He told me they had a board and he jumped off it.
What???
So I looked at Cassie, and yup, sure enough while Gina was sleeping she took the kids swimming. Abbey, her sister, came over as well. They put a floaty bathing suit on Myles and he JUMPED OFF THE DIVING BOARD. 4 TIMES!!!!!!!!!!!!
Holy cow.
She said he doggy paddled from one end of the pool to the next.
My boy. Really? Really!!! Wow!
He came home grabbed one of my beloved circus peanuts (see below) (and yes, my kids now love them too) and walked back to his room.
After a few minutes we wondered what was up.
We found him, sound asleep with one and a half circus peanuts next to him.
He's down for the night. Poor guy had a big day.
I just hope he doesn't remember he had circus peanuts with him when he wakes up. Because they aren't there anymore.
So I have an addiction
I guess the first step is admitting it, right?
It started a couple of months ago when I saw something I hadn't seen in years. I was curious. I decided to purchase some and see if they tasted the same.
They did.
Then I started wanting them more often.
Now I'm making sneaky purchases and hiding it from the kids.
But they caught me. And now they want some.
And I don't want to share.
Most people think it's so gross, and it is, but I can't help it.
I love these things and need to have them on a regular basis.
When I couldn't find them at my regular "spot" this week and I got a little panicky, I knew I had a problem.
Think there's any type of support group for weaning yourself off these??
It started a couple of months ago when I saw something I hadn't seen in years. I was curious. I decided to purchase some and see if they tasted the same.
They did.
Then I started wanting them more often.
Now I'm making sneaky purchases and hiding it from the kids.
But they caught me. And now they want some.
And I don't want to share.
Most people think it's so gross, and it is, but I can't help it.
I love these things and need to have them on a regular basis.
When I couldn't find them at my regular "spot" this week and I got a little panicky, I knew I had a problem.
Think there's any type of support group for weaning yourself off these??
Saturday, August 16, 2008
An awesome day at Parky's Farm
We all went to Parky's Farm tody, for the first time this summer. It was so much fun.
Myles got to ride a pony, which he loved and had no problems with. Not scared at all and didn't want us walking with him. What a change from previous summers!
We then went to the playbarn and he was diving in the ball pit, going down the slides, climing on everything, etc. Again, what a change from when he was TERRIFIED of the ball pit!
There is a wooden ramp in part of the playbarn that held Gina's attention the whole time. She just kept walking down it and then back up, and was so proud. She likes doing silly things like that...stepping from the curb to the ground, up and down steps, etc. She even got in the ball pit. She wasn't real sure at first, but she stayed in until it got too rambunctious in there for her.
We also went to the petting zoo area. Myles got to feed a goat and brush several of them. He also pet a sheep and a bunny rabbit. So did Gina. It was funny to see how she reacted to the different feeling of their coats. Myles really liked it and had such a good time. He even wanted to go back to the playbarn to go through this "carrot maze" they had, which is something he wouldn't have even considered not long ago.
And what cracked me up is, the last time we were there was for Halloween, when they have a big event. Well, as part of that, they did a magic show. AS we were pulling up to Parky's Farm Myles asked if he could go see the magic show again. I couldn't believe he recognized the place and remembered that...shoot, I had almost forgotten about it!
Myles really wanted to ride the wagon, but we told him a little white lie, and told him that today it was just for adults but we'd come back on a kid day and do that. He's already asking to go back tomorrow!
It was a fun day! Once I'm able to upload pictures at work I'll share some of them with you.
Myles got to ride a pony, which he loved and had no problems with. Not scared at all and didn't want us walking with him. What a change from previous summers!
We then went to the playbarn and he was diving in the ball pit, going down the slides, climing on everything, etc. Again, what a change from when he was TERRIFIED of the ball pit!
There is a wooden ramp in part of the playbarn that held Gina's attention the whole time. She just kept walking down it and then back up, and was so proud. She likes doing silly things like that...stepping from the curb to the ground, up and down steps, etc. She even got in the ball pit. She wasn't real sure at first, but she stayed in until it got too rambunctious in there for her.
We also went to the petting zoo area. Myles got to feed a goat and brush several of them. He also pet a sheep and a bunny rabbit. So did Gina. It was funny to see how she reacted to the different feeling of their coats. Myles really liked it and had such a good time. He even wanted to go back to the playbarn to go through this "carrot maze" they had, which is something he wouldn't have even considered not long ago.
And what cracked me up is, the last time we were there was for Halloween, when they have a big event. Well, as part of that, they did a magic show. AS we were pulling up to Parky's Farm Myles asked if he could go see the magic show again. I couldn't believe he recognized the place and remembered that...shoot, I had almost forgotten about it!
Myles really wanted to ride the wagon, but we told him a little white lie, and told him that today it was just for adults but we'd come back on a kid day and do that. He's already asking to go back tomorrow!
It was a fun day! Once I'm able to upload pictures at work I'll share some of them with you.
The latest Gina napping "incident"
When we put Gina down for a nap this afternoon, I decided to take one myself. It didn't seem like long later I awake to Derrick telling me to get up quick, it's an emergency. You guys know I don't wake up easily or happily when sleep is cut short. So I groggily get up to see what's going on.
I walk into Gina's room and see her bed, babies, toys, and wall covered in what Derrick thought for sure was blood. It was all over her shirt, face, neck, etc. I think he was panicking.
I had a mommy instinct telling me it wasn't blood, but I wasn't sure what it was until I spotted an empty lipstick container on the floor.
How she got it or found a way to smuggle it into her crib, I don't know. Derrick sure was relived though. He thought she had hit her head on the side of the crib.
So needless to see we now have even more laundry and they got an extra bath today.
She is becoming quite the little trouble maker. Cindy told me when I picked her up on Thursday that when she went in to get Gina up from her nap that day she found Gina, with her shorts still on, but her diaper off, and playing in a huge mess. The girl undid the tabs on her diaper and slid it off through the leg hole of her shorts. Cindy had that problem with both of her girls when they were little, but I have to say this is unchartered territory for us.
I walk into Gina's room and see her bed, babies, toys, and wall covered in what Derrick thought for sure was blood. It was all over her shirt, face, neck, etc. I think he was panicking.
I had a mommy instinct telling me it wasn't blood, but I wasn't sure what it was until I spotted an empty lipstick container on the floor.
How she got it or found a way to smuggle it into her crib, I don't know. Derrick sure was relived though. He thought she had hit her head on the side of the crib.
So needless to see we now have even more laundry and they got an extra bath today.
She is becoming quite the little trouble maker. Cindy told me when I picked her up on Thursday that when she went in to get Gina up from her nap that day she found Gina, with her shorts still on, but her diaper off, and playing in a huge mess. The girl undid the tabs on her diaper and slid it off through the leg hole of her shorts. Cindy had that problem with both of her girls when they were little, but I have to say this is unchartered territory for us.
Friday, August 15, 2008
TGIF
It's the end of a long, but productive week, and I'm looking forward to the weekend.
Derrick got a lot accomplished on the job search front and we're just feeling more confident everyday that our time is coming.
He's been super busy all week and has had very long days between interviews, appointments, and working, but he's home with the kids today, and I'm sure they'll have a good time.
Last week they went to the mall to hang out and play. We'll see if today holds any adventures for them.
He is trying to suffer through the pain he's having right now associated with two roots in his mouth being exposed. He goes on Monday to get them pulled. I feel bad for him because I know it's painful, and there's not a lot he can do about it.
Myles' swim lessons wrapped up this week. He did really well and seemed to really enjoy them. We'll probably try to get him signed up for something else at the Y soon.
Gina is still just Gina. She has mastered the work MINE. She also has the role of annoying little sister down pat. She has to do everything Myles does, play with everything he wants to play with, eat everything he eats, etc. Of course she wouldn't want anything to do with it if he didn't have it, but that's the annoying part.
She is obsessed with baby wipes and everytime we change her she reaches for one and says "my wipe". Of course she just wants to drop it on the floor and then ask for another one.
This morning I caught her with her shampoo bottle. I took it from her and said "yuck". She actually had the nerve to swipe at me and say "mine"! She then saw her cup, which she calls a "bubby" (don't ask) sitting there and said very sassily, "MY bubby". She's a little girl with a big attitude.
I'm looking forward to hopefully a relaxing weekend with the family. If it ever starts...this day is dragging by so far!
Derrick got a lot accomplished on the job search front and we're just feeling more confident everyday that our time is coming.
He's been super busy all week and has had very long days between interviews, appointments, and working, but he's home with the kids today, and I'm sure they'll have a good time.
Last week they went to the mall to hang out and play. We'll see if today holds any adventures for them.
He is trying to suffer through the pain he's having right now associated with two roots in his mouth being exposed. He goes on Monday to get them pulled. I feel bad for him because I know it's painful, and there's not a lot he can do about it.
Myles' swim lessons wrapped up this week. He did really well and seemed to really enjoy them. We'll probably try to get him signed up for something else at the Y soon.
Gina is still just Gina. She has mastered the work MINE. She also has the role of annoying little sister down pat. She has to do everything Myles does, play with everything he wants to play with, eat everything he eats, etc. Of course she wouldn't want anything to do with it if he didn't have it, but that's the annoying part.
She is obsessed with baby wipes and everytime we change her she reaches for one and says "my wipe". Of course she just wants to drop it on the floor and then ask for another one.
This morning I caught her with her shampoo bottle. I took it from her and said "yuck". She actually had the nerve to swipe at me and say "mine"! She then saw her cup, which she calls a "bubby" (don't ask) sitting there and said very sassily, "MY bubby". She's a little girl with a big attitude.
I'm looking forward to hopefully a relaxing weekend with the family. If it ever starts...this day is dragging by so far!
Monday, August 11, 2008
What am I going to do with her?
Gina that is. She is such a dare devil. She loves to do anything that will give me grey hair and possibly break a bone. Her latest thing is to stand up in the recliner and just fall straight forward into you. Problem is, she doesn't always give notice. She doesn't seem to be scared of anything.
Today I put her down for a nap and she just sat in her crib and babbled for almost an hour. I was getting ready to just get her up (but heck even if she wasn't sleeping, it was quiet and she was content) lol, when thank God I was standing in the hallway because I heard a loud, but muffled shreak and cry. I ran in there and could instantly see she wasn't in her crib, so I figured she must have fallen out. Nope, not on the floor (what a horrible thought...it's funny how just a coupe of seconds can go so slowly when things like this happen). I hear the crying still and realize she is .....in her hamper.
Yes, she fell out of her crib and into her hamper head first. She was laying on her back with her feet up over her head. I tried to lift her out, but she was wedged in there too tight.
I ended up having to pull her out by her legs. Poor thing. She was so scared and was just holding on to me so tightly. I felt so badly for her.
I don't even think she was trying to climb out, I think she was leaning for something on her dresser (probably her wipes because she is OBSESSED with them) and just fell.
I guess the hamper is better than the floor though. Although she still has a mark on her head! Poor baby.
Today I put her down for a nap and she just sat in her crib and babbled for almost an hour. I was getting ready to just get her up (but heck even if she wasn't sleeping, it was quiet and she was content) lol, when thank God I was standing in the hallway because I heard a loud, but muffled shreak and cry. I ran in there and could instantly see she wasn't in her crib, so I figured she must have fallen out. Nope, not on the floor (what a horrible thought...it's funny how just a coupe of seconds can go so slowly when things like this happen). I hear the crying still and realize she is .....in her hamper.
Yes, she fell out of her crib and into her hamper head first. She was laying on her back with her feet up over her head. I tried to lift her out, but she was wedged in there too tight.
I ended up having to pull her out by her legs. Poor thing. She was so scared and was just holding on to me so tightly. I felt so badly for her.
I don't even think she was trying to climb out, I think she was leaning for something on her dresser (probably her wipes because she is OBSESSED with them) and just fell.
I guess the hamper is better than the floor though. Although she still has a mark on her head! Poor baby.
Sunday, August 10, 2008
I think we found our church home!
We've gone a couple of times to Compass Community Church and really like it, and have both said that we have connected more here than anywhere else.
Last week they discussed an opportunity to mentor students at Winton Woods with their math and science skills. Derrick and I were both interested, but coudln't make the hours work.
So we were pleased today when we heard of another opportunity to help. They have purchased back packs and have included a list inside of school supplies that are needed. So we took one home with us and purchased all the supplies. It cost me less than 20 dollars, and it felt so good. I'm glad we were able to help someone less fortunate.
I even got to thinking that I wish I could find a way to donate even more. Most of what they needed was so simple and cost so little. (There were about 3 items that cost the majority of the money, everything else was less than a dollar!) If any of you have any suggestions on how to collect more school donations, let me know.
But Derrick and I have really enjoyed the church, and I think the kids do as well. It's small (probably less than 200 people), but everyone seems so close and just so "real". I'm so glad to have found a place where we all feel so comfortable.
Last week they discussed an opportunity to mentor students at Winton Woods with their math and science skills. Derrick and I were both interested, but coudln't make the hours work.
So we were pleased today when we heard of another opportunity to help. They have purchased back packs and have included a list inside of school supplies that are needed. So we took one home with us and purchased all the supplies. It cost me less than 20 dollars, and it felt so good. I'm glad we were able to help someone less fortunate.
I even got to thinking that I wish I could find a way to donate even more. Most of what they needed was so simple and cost so little. (There were about 3 items that cost the majority of the money, everything else was less than a dollar!) If any of you have any suggestions on how to collect more school donations, let me know.
But Derrick and I have really enjoyed the church, and I think the kids do as well. It's small (probably less than 200 people), but everyone seems so close and just so "real". I'm so glad to have found a place where we all feel so comfortable.
Saturday, August 9, 2008
Meet the latest Avon representative!
I did it! I took a step outside of my comfort zone and signed up to be an Avon rep!! I think it'll be a fun and exciting adventure (and hopefully a profitable one too). I must say, I'm proud of myself. I had thought about it before but always talked myself out of it, and this time I just did it. What the heck, right? What do I have to lose?
So anyway, let me know if you have any marketing ideas or suggestions. I'd appreciate all the help I can get!!
So anyway, let me know if you have any marketing ideas or suggestions. I'd appreciate all the help I can get!!
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Movin' on u-uppp
Why can't I remember more of that song??
Anyway, this front yard is bearings something it hasn't seen in a VERY long time....
A For Sale Sign!!!
We met with a different realtor last night and I just love him. Actually, dad, I kept thinking he reminded me of you with his demeanor. He was very nice and professional and knowledgeable, yet reassuring and a little more, uh...gentle, about the process than the other agent. I believe this is who we were meant to list with.
So he took all the pictures last night (I wish I had known that was going to happen)!!! and they plan on getting it listed today and get the process started.
I'm actually excited about it.
Now we just have more for the Salvation Army to come pick up to get some things out of the bedrooms so they look "roomier", get some more cleaning done upstairs, and some more purging downstairs. But to have a plan and be proceeding with it is liberating.
Derrick is in the process of looking for a second, part-time job, and I'm looking into getting a second job I can do from home. Data Entry, Customer Service, etc...so if anyone has any leads.....
I'm so blessed and grateful to have a strong support network that is there to listen to me complain when I'm feeling down and then lift me back up so I can get my head around everything again.
I have a good feeling about everything. We are on the road to getting the house sold, Derrick has been in overdrive trying to get a first and second job, and I know things can only start to come together for us now.
Okay, I'm going to be late if I don't go dry my hair and get off to work. Have a good day!!!
Anyway, this front yard is bearings something it hasn't seen in a VERY long time....
A For Sale Sign!!!
We met with a different realtor last night and I just love him. Actually, dad, I kept thinking he reminded me of you with his demeanor. He was very nice and professional and knowledgeable, yet reassuring and a little more, uh...gentle, about the process than the other agent. I believe this is who we were meant to list with.
So he took all the pictures last night (I wish I had known that was going to happen)!!! and they plan on getting it listed today and get the process started.
I'm actually excited about it.
Now we just have more for the Salvation Army to come pick up to get some things out of the bedrooms so they look "roomier", get some more cleaning done upstairs, and some more purging downstairs. But to have a plan and be proceeding with it is liberating.
Derrick is in the process of looking for a second, part-time job, and I'm looking into getting a second job I can do from home. Data Entry, Customer Service, etc...so if anyone has any leads.....
I'm so blessed and grateful to have a strong support network that is there to listen to me complain when I'm feeling down and then lift me back up so I can get my head around everything again.
I have a good feeling about everything. We are on the road to getting the house sold, Derrick has been in overdrive trying to get a first and second job, and I know things can only start to come together for us now.
Okay, I'm going to be late if I don't go dry my hair and get off to work. Have a good day!!!
It's in the valley's I grow.
Thank you, Stacey for this little blessing you sent me. I love it. (Although sometimes I wonder how much I will have to "grow") lol
IT'S IN THE VALLEYS I GROW
Sometimes life seems hard to bear,
Full of sorrow, trouble and woe
It's then I have to remember
That it's in the valleys I grow.
If I always stayed on the mountain top
And never experienced pain,
I would never appreciate God's love
And would be living in vain.
I have so much to learn
And my growth is very slow,
Sometimes I need the mountain tops,
But it's in the valleys I grow.
I do not always understand
Why things happen as they do,
But I am very sure of one thing.
My Lord will see me through.
My little valleys are nothing
When I picture Christ on the cross
He went through the valley of death;
His victory was Satan's loss.
Forgive me Lord, for complaining
When I'm feeling so very low.
Just give me a gentle reminder
That it's in the valleys I grow.
Continue to strengthen me, Lord
And use my life each day
To share your love with others
And help them find their way.
Thank you for valleys, Lord
For this one thing I know
The mountain tops are glorious
But it's in the valleys I grow!
by Jane Eggleston
IT'S IN THE VALLEYS I GROW
Sometimes life seems hard to bear,
Full of sorrow, trouble and woe
It's then I have to remember
That it's in the valleys I grow.
If I always stayed on the mountain top
And never experienced pain,
I would never appreciate God's love
And would be living in vain.
I have so much to learn
And my growth is very slow,
Sometimes I need the mountain tops,
But it's in the valleys I grow.
I do not always understand
Why things happen as they do,
But I am very sure of one thing.
My Lord will see me through.
My little valleys are nothing
When I picture Christ on the cross
He went through the valley of death;
His victory was Satan's loss.
Forgive me Lord, for complaining
When I'm feeling so very low.
Just give me a gentle reminder
That it's in the valleys I grow.
Continue to strengthen me, Lord
And use my life each day
To share your love with others
And help them find their way.
Thank you for valleys, Lord
For this one thing I know
The mountain tops are glorious
But it's in the valleys I grow!
by Jane Eggleston
Monday, August 4, 2008
A long day
Today was a long day. I tend to use the blog as a chance to journal and get some stuff out, and since only those I really care about can see it, it's a good opportunity to do just that.
I went to work this morning while Derrick watched the kids, then the real estate agent came over, and once he left Derrick had to go to work. I must admit one of the things I've enjoyed about my job in the past was that it is relatively low pressure. As a working mom, it's great because I stay busy, but it's not so hectic I end up stressed and frazzled when I come home to be with the kids. Until lately anyway. Lately it's been crazy and busy and making it difficult to just enjoy work and put it behind me when I leave.
So anyway, after Derrick went to work, the kids and I went to the grocery store. Usually we grocery shop as a family so we can tag team everything, but today it just wasn't going to work. So I used the opportunity to go to a different store for a few specific items I can only get there, and wouldn't you know they were out of all of them? So frustrating.
But once we got back, the kids were both tired and fell asleep. I must admit, I do love when they take a nap at the same time! And a blessing of the day? Myles is relaxed by listening to KLove on the radio in his room. He was overly tired when we got home and acting it. But a few minutes in his room wiht KLove on, and he was fast asleep.
So, as the kids were sleeping, I got to thinking. I've been thinking a lot lately about why life is so complicated. Or at least seems to be so complicated for some, yet (at least from the outside) so relatively simple for others. Is it complicated because that's just the way life is, or do we just make it complicated? Over think things that really aren't as difficult as they seem?
I have a tendancy to stay so goal oriented and focused on my "to-do list" that I miss out on the fun in life. I treat life as one big to-do list and just check things off. I tend to "take life on" full force to a point that I inevitabley end up feeling exhausted for a day or two until I can regroup and get my focus back where it should be.
So that made me think-if we really want to be faith belivers and not just SAY we have faith when it's easy, than maybe we need to do less of the driving in life and more of the riding along in the passenger seat. Give up a little control to the only person that IS in control of it all. I guess life is all about finding that balance. The balance between listening to God and following his guidance vs. allowing him to work on things for a while.
If happiness really is a choice, then I guess we have to make that choice even when you aren't feeling it naturally. Even on a down day we can still choose to be happy and not let the events of life bring us down for long.
Have you noticed how infectious a smile is? Or laughter? I think it was designed that way. God uses us to lift each other up.
I am so blessed to have two young, funny kids that can make me see the simpler side of life and always provide an opportunity to laugh.
I think the new church we've been going to (twice now) is going to be great at pushing us outside of our comfort zone and leading us to do things in the community we wouldn't normally do. It's big enough to have those opportunities, but not so big that you can easily sit back and think "someone else will do that". And I just have a feeling that taking advantage of some volunteer opportunities in the community is exactly what I need to do. To help other people, especially children in need, and receive the blessings that come from helping others. The blessing of touching someone's life when they need it most, to take the focus off of ourselves and be truly aware of others and their circumstances (maybe to see it's not as simple as it appeared), and for the opportunity to be the person God uses to spread a smile.
Smile on. Good night.
I went to work this morning while Derrick watched the kids, then the real estate agent came over, and once he left Derrick had to go to work. I must admit one of the things I've enjoyed about my job in the past was that it is relatively low pressure. As a working mom, it's great because I stay busy, but it's not so hectic I end up stressed and frazzled when I come home to be with the kids. Until lately anyway. Lately it's been crazy and busy and making it difficult to just enjoy work and put it behind me when I leave.
So anyway, after Derrick went to work, the kids and I went to the grocery store. Usually we grocery shop as a family so we can tag team everything, but today it just wasn't going to work. So I used the opportunity to go to a different store for a few specific items I can only get there, and wouldn't you know they were out of all of them? So frustrating.
But once we got back, the kids were both tired and fell asleep. I must admit, I do love when they take a nap at the same time! And a blessing of the day? Myles is relaxed by listening to KLove on the radio in his room. He was overly tired when we got home and acting it. But a few minutes in his room wiht KLove on, and he was fast asleep.
So, as the kids were sleeping, I got to thinking. I've been thinking a lot lately about why life is so complicated. Or at least seems to be so complicated for some, yet (at least from the outside) so relatively simple for others. Is it complicated because that's just the way life is, or do we just make it complicated? Over think things that really aren't as difficult as they seem?
I have a tendancy to stay so goal oriented and focused on my "to-do list" that I miss out on the fun in life. I treat life as one big to-do list and just check things off. I tend to "take life on" full force to a point that I inevitabley end up feeling exhausted for a day or two until I can regroup and get my focus back where it should be.
So that made me think-if we really want to be faith belivers and not just SAY we have faith when it's easy, than maybe we need to do less of the driving in life and more of the riding along in the passenger seat. Give up a little control to the only person that IS in control of it all. I guess life is all about finding that balance. The balance between listening to God and following his guidance vs. allowing him to work on things for a while.
If happiness really is a choice, then I guess we have to make that choice even when you aren't feeling it naturally. Even on a down day we can still choose to be happy and not let the events of life bring us down for long.
Have you noticed how infectious a smile is? Or laughter? I think it was designed that way. God uses us to lift each other up.
I am so blessed to have two young, funny kids that can make me see the simpler side of life and always provide an opportunity to laugh.
I think the new church we've been going to (twice now) is going to be great at pushing us outside of our comfort zone and leading us to do things in the community we wouldn't normally do. It's big enough to have those opportunities, but not so big that you can easily sit back and think "someone else will do that". And I just have a feeling that taking advantage of some volunteer opportunities in the community is exactly what I need to do. To help other people, especially children in need, and receive the blessings that come from helping others. The blessing of touching someone's life when they need it most, to take the focus off of ourselves and be truly aware of others and their circumstances (maybe to see it's not as simple as it appeared), and for the opportunity to be the person God uses to spread a smile.
Smile on. Good night.
Sunday, August 3, 2008
A busy weekend
We've accomplished quite a bit this weekend. Derrick and I spent several hours yesterday making changes (hopefully improvements) to his resume and applying to millions more places online. For those of you that know Derrick, you know he isn't that computer savvy, and our ancient computer isn't the best to learn on, so he's been doing really well. I've heard that with today's job market, unemployment rate and economy the average time to find a job is 6 months. Please God, let us be better than average. If only he were going for an entry level position, things would be so much easier. Companies just don't want to/can't afford to pay people anymore, so they end up looking for people with no experience. We are so ready to accept a position (pretty much any position), we just need to be patient. I know the right thing is out there, and I really think it'll be soon, but it's just unnerving to go through the process.
We've also been doing more cleaning/purging of stuff in preparation for a real estate agent that's coming over tomorrow. We found two people that specialize in an area that I think can really help us, so we're interested to hear what the first has to say tomorrow.
Right after Myles had a long conversation with my mom and dad tonight, he was running down the hallway to show me how fast he could go. His stopping point was the linen closet at the end of our hallway, and as he ran into it as a finish line, he got his pinky pinched in the crack where it opens. I felt so bad becasue I've done that and know how bad it hurts. It immediately bruised up and started bleeding, so he's been sporting a band aid tonight. It's amazing how fascinated kids are with bandaids.
But that incident led to a funny moment. Myles had no idea your small finger was called a "pinky". He got so frustrated with me, saying "It's not my pinky, it's my FINGER". So I explained to him what a pinky was and that everyone had one. And in true Myles fashion, he thinks for a minute and said "well, horses don't have pinky's".
Yes, Myles, you're right. They don't. Wow. To just be inside that little head for a while to see how it operates. lol
So after we got him bandanged up, we were able to use a much appreciated gift I received at work to go out to dinner, which we really enjoyed. We went to Max and Erma's and I was so proud of the kids and how well behaved they were. They both ate well (well, there's not been an occassion yet that Gina *doesn't* eat well), so Myles got the build your own sundae for dessert. I was laughing to myself as I helped him make it thinking that sometimes he's lucky to have me for a mom. :)
Turns out the weirdo just wanted a handful of chewy sweattarts, so mommy got free dessert. Yum.
Now Derrick is out working in the yard and then has his work cut out for him in the basement, and I'm going to go RELAX. It's been a long day, and I'm getting up early to go into work tomorrow for a half day.
We've also been doing more cleaning/purging of stuff in preparation for a real estate agent that's coming over tomorrow. We found two people that specialize in an area that I think can really help us, so we're interested to hear what the first has to say tomorrow.
Right after Myles had a long conversation with my mom and dad tonight, he was running down the hallway to show me how fast he could go. His stopping point was the linen closet at the end of our hallway, and as he ran into it as a finish line, he got his pinky pinched in the crack where it opens. I felt so bad becasue I've done that and know how bad it hurts. It immediately bruised up and started bleeding, so he's been sporting a band aid tonight. It's amazing how fascinated kids are with bandaids.
But that incident led to a funny moment. Myles had no idea your small finger was called a "pinky". He got so frustrated with me, saying "It's not my pinky, it's my FINGER". So I explained to him what a pinky was and that everyone had one. And in true Myles fashion, he thinks for a minute and said "well, horses don't have pinky's".
Yes, Myles, you're right. They don't. Wow. To just be inside that little head for a while to see how it operates. lol
So after we got him bandanged up, we were able to use a much appreciated gift I received at work to go out to dinner, which we really enjoyed. We went to Max and Erma's and I was so proud of the kids and how well behaved they were. They both ate well (well, there's not been an occassion yet that Gina *doesn't* eat well), so Myles got the build your own sundae for dessert. I was laughing to myself as I helped him make it thinking that sometimes he's lucky to have me for a mom. :)
Turns out the weirdo just wanted a handful of chewy sweattarts, so mommy got free dessert. Yum.
Now Derrick is out working in the yard and then has his work cut out for him in the basement, and I'm going to go RELAX. It's been a long day, and I'm getting up early to go into work tomorrow for a half day.
Saturday, August 2, 2008
I'm so proud of my boy
We all went to the Y today so Myles could show daddy how well he's been "swimming". He'll put his whole head under water, try to float on his back, jump off the side, etc. And to think he'd barely step foot in a pool when we went to FL in March.
He actually sort of swam a little bit. It wasn't pretty and it's not like he's doing laps, but he actually floated on his belly while kicking his feet and moving his arms and made it a few feet. He did that several times. He was so proud of himself and I was so proud of him!! Derrick was amazed as he hasn't seem him in the water much lately.
He's been taking swim lessons and I think they've really helped his confidence. And Gina...that girl is a dare devil. I think she'd just keep waling until the water went over her head if I wasn't there with her. She went down the steps, jumped to me, and back up over and over and over again. She's so much more relaxed and free spirited about trying new things.
And the best part? Swimming makes them tired. lol
He actually sort of swam a little bit. It wasn't pretty and it's not like he's doing laps, but he actually floated on his belly while kicking his feet and moving his arms and made it a few feet. He did that several times. He was so proud of himself and I was so proud of him!! Derrick was amazed as he hasn't seem him in the water much lately.
He's been taking swim lessons and I think they've really helped his confidence. And Gina...that girl is a dare devil. I think she'd just keep waling until the water went over her head if I wasn't there with her. She went down the steps, jumped to me, and back up over and over and over again. She's so much more relaxed and free spirited about trying new things.
And the best part? Swimming makes them tired. lol
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
So now that it's been almost a month...
I guess it's time for an update. :)
Problem is, so much time has passesd I don't even know what to say. I feel like nothing much has changed.
Let's see...we had a busy "medical month" in July with the kids and I all getting random things. Gina had croup, Myles had what I thought was an eye infection but turned out to just be a stye, and I had an infection as well. I've visited the Walgreens Take Care Clinics a little too often at this point!!
Derrick is still job searching. He's getting close with one particular company, but I'm staying cautiously optimistic and just putting my faith in God. I know the right thing will happen at the right time...and if this isn't it, I truly feel like it'll happen soon. Just continue to pray for us on that front.
We visited another new church this past week...that makes number 4 so far. Does that mean we are really picky? I liked this one though. It was much more racially diverse, which made us both more comfortable, and it was just a very laid back, down to earth environment that we both connected with. It still has a few "downsides", but I think I've been looking for the "perfect fit". If I could just take bits and pieces of each of the churches we've visited and combine them, it'd be great. :)
Myles is in swim lessons and having a great time. He's so much more relaxed than last year. And it works out perfectly because Cindy takes him and Cheyenne at the same time on Tuesday mornings, so I don't even have to go. (That sounds bad, doesn't it??) But he will finally put his whole head under, and they are working on floating. When I take him to the pool he mainly just likes to play, but he's not so scared anymore. He loves having fun in the waterpark and standing under the buckets as they fill with water just to overturn on his head. Something he'd have NEVER done before.
Cindy is having surgery Aug. 8th on her shoulder, so we're currently trying to find someome to watch the kids for that day and the following week. It's times like this I really hate being a working mom. Especially since I don't have any vacation time left.
Well, I think that's about it for now. I will try to get back in the habit of updating this several times a week. I've missed it, and missed staying in touch with everyone.
Have a good night!
Problem is, so much time has passesd I don't even know what to say. I feel like nothing much has changed.
Let's see...we had a busy "medical month" in July with the kids and I all getting random things. Gina had croup, Myles had what I thought was an eye infection but turned out to just be a stye, and I had an infection as well. I've visited the Walgreens Take Care Clinics a little too often at this point!!
Derrick is still job searching. He's getting close with one particular company, but I'm staying cautiously optimistic and just putting my faith in God. I know the right thing will happen at the right time...and if this isn't it, I truly feel like it'll happen soon. Just continue to pray for us on that front.
We visited another new church this past week...that makes number 4 so far. Does that mean we are really picky? I liked this one though. It was much more racially diverse, which made us both more comfortable, and it was just a very laid back, down to earth environment that we both connected with. It still has a few "downsides", but I think I've been looking for the "perfect fit". If I could just take bits and pieces of each of the churches we've visited and combine them, it'd be great. :)
Myles is in swim lessons and having a great time. He's so much more relaxed than last year. And it works out perfectly because Cindy takes him and Cheyenne at the same time on Tuesday mornings, so I don't even have to go. (That sounds bad, doesn't it??) But he will finally put his whole head under, and they are working on floating. When I take him to the pool he mainly just likes to play, but he's not so scared anymore. He loves having fun in the waterpark and standing under the buckets as they fill with water just to overturn on his head. Something he'd have NEVER done before.
Cindy is having surgery Aug. 8th on her shoulder, so we're currently trying to find someome to watch the kids for that day and the following week. It's times like this I really hate being a working mom. Especially since I don't have any vacation time left.
Well, I think that's about it for now. I will try to get back in the habit of updating this several times a week. I've missed it, and missed staying in touch with everyone.
Have a good night!
Saturday, July 12, 2008
I guess every kid has their "thing"...
when they get sick....
for some it's colds, others get a lot of ear infections, ours get croup.
Gina is the victim this time, poor thing.
As scary as it is, we've been through it so many times now it's almost routine. As soon as we hear that cough...and any parent that has heard it knows what I mean...you know they have it. You don't need any doctor to tell you.
So, she's had her steroids and also got a good cough medicine for now or any other time she has a cough, and she's on the mend.
Unfortunately, it's been really humid this weekend and it's very hot in the house, and that probably isn't helping anything. (I know it sure isn't helping my demeanor).
I hate seeing either one of them sick, but Gilna is a cuddler by nature, so when she gets sick it's really pitiful. She just wanted to be held and rest her head on my shoulder and hold my hand. That's such a rare treat these days, I treasure it.
for some it's colds, others get a lot of ear infections, ours get croup.
Gina is the victim this time, poor thing.
As scary as it is, we've been through it so many times now it's almost routine. As soon as we hear that cough...and any parent that has heard it knows what I mean...you know they have it. You don't need any doctor to tell you.
So, she's had her steroids and also got a good cough medicine for now or any other time she has a cough, and she's on the mend.
Unfortunately, it's been really humid this weekend and it's very hot in the house, and that probably isn't helping anything. (I know it sure isn't helping my demeanor).
I hate seeing either one of them sick, but Gilna is a cuddler by nature, so when she gets sick it's really pitiful. She just wanted to be held and rest her head on my shoulder and hold my hand. That's such a rare treat these days, I treasure it.
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Fun Fourth of July
We had a great day with the kids. I have lots of pictures, but can't upload them on this camera, so those will have to wait.
But, we went to the Springdale Family Fun Fourth of July.
They had food and a petting zoo and pony rides (which I didn't figure out until they were closing) and tons of booths with face painting, tatoos, baloon animals, cariactures, etc and a huge inflatable slide and a bounce house.
Myles first asked to get his face painted. I figured he'd get up there and bail out, as he's never let anyone do it before. But he didn't...he sat through the whole thing and got a huge star around his eye and some smaller stars on his cheek. He loved it. Gina got some little stars too, she was so cute.
He attempted the huge slide, but as he went to climb up the middle part to get to the top, he heard and felt the fan that keeps it inflated blowing, and he bailed. But that was okay. He then asked to do the bounce house, which shocked me. He'd never go in before. But he did. I have pictures of that too.
He was even willing to take a pony ride, but they closed it for the night right as it was to be his turn. I was just glad he was willing.
We then went to get ready for the fireworks, but they started about 20 minutes late. We had decided to head back to the car as we could see them from there, and we were all getting antsy, and it was late. It turned out to be a good decision. We sat on the hood of the car and had a perfect view. And Myles loved it. Loud noises and all. He's still talking about it. And Gina was hysterical. She just kept pointing and saying "woah" "wow". On the way home, Myles was asleep before we pulled out of the parking lot, but Gina stayed up the whole time, just looking around. That girl is gonna be a party animal.
Oh...and we also decided to go to Goodwill that day just to look around. I found Myles a new pair of "blue pants" (yes, he's still wearing them, even in the middle of the summer) with an adjustable waist that are perfect. And I also found a pair of size 11 (a huge feat anywhere...pun intended) Tommy Hilfiger black loafers for myself. They look brand new and were only three dollars! Yay! Gotta love a bargain.
But, we went to the Springdale Family Fun Fourth of July.
They had food and a petting zoo and pony rides (which I didn't figure out until they were closing) and tons of booths with face painting, tatoos, baloon animals, cariactures, etc and a huge inflatable slide and a bounce house.
Myles first asked to get his face painted. I figured he'd get up there and bail out, as he's never let anyone do it before. But he didn't...he sat through the whole thing and got a huge star around his eye and some smaller stars on his cheek. He loved it. Gina got some little stars too, she was so cute.
He attempted the huge slide, but as he went to climb up the middle part to get to the top, he heard and felt the fan that keeps it inflated blowing, and he bailed. But that was okay. He then asked to do the bounce house, which shocked me. He'd never go in before. But he did. I have pictures of that too.
He was even willing to take a pony ride, but they closed it for the night right as it was to be his turn. I was just glad he was willing.
We then went to get ready for the fireworks, but they started about 20 minutes late. We had decided to head back to the car as we could see them from there, and we were all getting antsy, and it was late. It turned out to be a good decision. We sat on the hood of the car and had a perfect view. And Myles loved it. Loud noises and all. He's still talking about it. And Gina was hysterical. She just kept pointing and saying "woah" "wow". On the way home, Myles was asleep before we pulled out of the parking lot, but Gina stayed up the whole time, just looking around. That girl is gonna be a party animal.
Oh...and we also decided to go to Goodwill that day just to look around. I found Myles a new pair of "blue pants" (yes, he's still wearing them, even in the middle of the summer) with an adjustable waist that are perfect. And I also found a pair of size 11 (a huge feat anywhere...pun intended) Tommy Hilfiger black loafers for myself. They look brand new and were only three dollars! Yay! Gotta love a bargain.
My favorite quotes from this weekend:
1) As we went through a McDonald's drive thru this weekend, I asked for two kiddie cones (in a dish).
Later, as we're driving away, Myles says, "Can I have some of that kiddie cat ice cream you got"?
2) Today as we were heading to church he says out of the blue "Do you think Mrs Stewart misses me?" I assured him she did. He says "I thought so. I thinks she misses me so much. It's been so many days since I've seen her".
3) And finally, as we're picking up Gina from the nursery, a care taker has the following conversation with Myles:
Her: Who are you here to pick up?
Myles: GINA!!!!!!!1
Her: Oh, is Gina you're baby?
M: No (laughing)
Her: Oh...then who's baby is it??
M: (Giving her a dumb look) Points to me.
Her: But she's your baby sister, right?
M: No. She just spits at me.
Her: (lauging) How old are you??
M: 4
Her: Well, how hold is Gina?
M: 25. (I have no idea where that came from).
Her: (Still laughing) What's your name, sweetie?
M: I've already told you, lady!! Were you not listening??
Where does he get this stuff??
Later, as we're driving away, Myles says, "Can I have some of that kiddie cat ice cream you got"?
2) Today as we were heading to church he says out of the blue "Do you think Mrs Stewart misses me?" I assured him she did. He says "I thought so. I thinks she misses me so much. It's been so many days since I've seen her".
3) And finally, as we're picking up Gina from the nursery, a care taker has the following conversation with Myles:
Her: Who are you here to pick up?
Myles: GINA!!!!!!!1
Her: Oh, is Gina you're baby?
M: No (laughing)
Her: Oh...then who's baby is it??
M: (Giving her a dumb look) Points to me.
Her: But she's your baby sister, right?
M: No. She just spits at me.
Her: (lauging) How old are you??
M: 4
Her: Well, how hold is Gina?
M: 25. (I have no idea where that came from).
Her: (Still laughing) What's your name, sweetie?
M: I've already told you, lady!! Were you not listening??
Where does he get this stuff??
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Just saying hi
As it's been a long time since I posted. It's probably a good thing that it doesn't feel like there's been much going on to post about.
I can't believe it's July 1st already! We really need to figure out our fourth of july plans!!
It'll be interesting to see what Myles thinks of the fireworks...we may have to get him some ear plugs.
He rode a bike for the first time yesterday. One of the neighbor boys that is 5 had one with training wheels and let Myles try. He was a natural. He also played on his scooter and did so well. I love that he takes to all of that so fast. Clearly that comes from Derrick's genes and not mine.
We also saw Horton Hears a Who this weekend. He had a great time and really enjoyed it. It's one of the first movies he actually stayed still for and watched the entire thing.
The job hunt is still going slow, but we're both staying positive. It's a tough market right now, and there are a lot of people out of work. It's taking longer on average for people to find a new job than it ever has.
We've been blessed with relatively cool weather, thank goodness. It hasn't been bad in the house at all.
Anyway, I'm off to bed. I've been exhausted lately and need to get some sleep.
Hope you're all having a good night!
I can't believe it's July 1st already! We really need to figure out our fourth of july plans!!
It'll be interesting to see what Myles thinks of the fireworks...we may have to get him some ear plugs.
He rode a bike for the first time yesterday. One of the neighbor boys that is 5 had one with training wheels and let Myles try. He was a natural. He also played on his scooter and did so well. I love that he takes to all of that so fast. Clearly that comes from Derrick's genes and not mine.
We also saw Horton Hears a Who this weekend. He had a great time and really enjoyed it. It's one of the first movies he actually stayed still for and watched the entire thing.
The job hunt is still going slow, but we're both staying positive. It's a tough market right now, and there are a lot of people out of work. It's taking longer on average for people to find a new job than it ever has.
We've been blessed with relatively cool weather, thank goodness. It hasn't been bad in the house at all.
Anyway, I'm off to bed. I've been exhausted lately and need to get some sleep.
Hope you're all having a good night!
Saturday, June 21, 2008
So hard to make, so easy to spend
Money that is.
Today we needed to get four new tires on the Acura, along with a headlight, tail light, alignment and oil change. We had put it off as long as possible, and it just wasn't safe anymore. Goodness gracious. It's amazing how you can spend so much in just a few minutes!!!
And I'm becoming real farmiliar with what a condensor is. Something I didn't know about just a few weeks ago. It's what is wrong with our home A/C and what they think is wrong with the Acura's A/C. They (Sears) tried to charge it twice and it just wouldn't work. But they can't do that fix there, so we need to bring it somewhere else. I am definitely learning patience though...something that I was not blessed with having much of. Patience and an adaptation for dealing wtih the heat. lol
Tomorrow we really need to go to church. We didn't go the past three weeks because of different conflicts and I'm missing it.
Gina learned a new word tonight. I told her it was time to go night night and she said it back to me. "night night". It was really sweet. She melts my heart.
Today is one of those days that I feel like I was busy all day, but didn't really accomplish anything. I have yet to get a shower even. It's just been a long day.
I am off to get cleaned up and relax!!!!
Hope you are all having a good night!!
Ally
Today we needed to get four new tires on the Acura, along with a headlight, tail light, alignment and oil change. We had put it off as long as possible, and it just wasn't safe anymore. Goodness gracious. It's amazing how you can spend so much in just a few minutes!!!
And I'm becoming real farmiliar with what a condensor is. Something I didn't know about just a few weeks ago. It's what is wrong with our home A/C and what they think is wrong with the Acura's A/C. They (Sears) tried to charge it twice and it just wouldn't work. But they can't do that fix there, so we need to bring it somewhere else. I am definitely learning patience though...something that I was not blessed with having much of. Patience and an adaptation for dealing wtih the heat. lol
Tomorrow we really need to go to church. We didn't go the past three weeks because of different conflicts and I'm missing it.
Gina learned a new word tonight. I told her it was time to go night night and she said it back to me. "night night". It was really sweet. She melts my heart.
Today is one of those days that I feel like I was busy all day, but didn't really accomplish anything. I have yet to get a shower even. It's just been a long day.
I am off to get cleaned up and relax!!!!
Hope you are all having a good night!!
Ally
Friday, June 20, 2008
10 years and our wildlife adventures.
Wow. 10 years. It's hard to believe that ten years ago today Derrick and I were married. It doesn't seem possible. 10 years and 2 beautiful children later, here we are.
We haven't done anything "official" to celebrate yet, but plan on going out next weekend for a nice dinner alone, and when mom comes in town in mid-July, we plan on doing a combo anniversary/birthday celebration and spending the night away while G-ma watches the kids. It'll be our first ever night away!
On a completely different note, we had quite the "incident" tonight. We recently confirmed the fact that some racoons have decided to make our home their home. I was going to go out to the car last night to get something out of it and saw a furry little critter by our gutter. I swear he waved to me. I'm so glad I was inside and saw him through the door. I stood there staring at him in a state of scared shock.
Today, about 6:00, I opened the front door to go out with the kids and there, right on our porch, right by the front door was another one. Myles now has a funny story to tell about his mommy literally screaming and then yelling at him to shut the door and get in the house. He got quite a kick out of that and has re-enacted it several times. I now know where Gina got her "squeal" from. And aren't these stupid things NOCTURNAL animals?? Last time I checked 6 pm during daylight savings time does NOT qualify. I'm telling you, it's messing with me.
Meanwhile, I about fainted in the folyer. Everyone says they are more scared of me than I am of it, but I believe that would be impossible. And I don't care what anyone says, that thing was NOT scared of us. It just stood there, probably saying "whatcha gonna do about it"? That's when a hunting dog comes in handy. I will no longer go anywhere without Max. Raccoons may not be scared of me, but they ARE scared of him. If anyone ever finds me passed out somewhere around the house, you can be pretty sure I saw a raccoon. I'm not so sure that thing wouldn't chase me down the block even if I took off running. More scared of me than I am of it. I don't think so.
I swear I can't get out of this house fast enough. I have not yet figured out how to have Max help me INTO the house when I'm coming home from somewhere. I'll have to give that one some thought. For now, I'm just grateful that I haven't carried out my plans of downsizing the number of pets we have as I've often threatened. But I will say, that if one of those things ever comes out and fights with him (and they might...they're probably just lifting weights during the day to build up their strength) the dog is on his own. I'll do what I can do from the safety and secruity the INSIDE of the house provides. However, if one ever finds it's way into the house I will surely die of fear, and it'll make for quite the interesting obituary.
I now feel like I need to go wash my hands or take a shower or something. Does anyone else feel like they are being watched??? *shudder*
We haven't done anything "official" to celebrate yet, but plan on going out next weekend for a nice dinner alone, and when mom comes in town in mid-July, we plan on doing a combo anniversary/birthday celebration and spending the night away while G-ma watches the kids. It'll be our first ever night away!
On a completely different note, we had quite the "incident" tonight. We recently confirmed the fact that some racoons have decided to make our home their home. I was going to go out to the car last night to get something out of it and saw a furry little critter by our gutter. I swear he waved to me. I'm so glad I was inside and saw him through the door. I stood there staring at him in a state of scared shock.
Today, about 6:00, I opened the front door to go out with the kids and there, right on our porch, right by the front door was another one. Myles now has a funny story to tell about his mommy literally screaming and then yelling at him to shut the door and get in the house. He got quite a kick out of that and has re-enacted it several times. I now know where Gina got her "squeal" from. And aren't these stupid things NOCTURNAL animals?? Last time I checked 6 pm during daylight savings time does NOT qualify. I'm telling you, it's messing with me.
Meanwhile, I about fainted in the folyer. Everyone says they are more scared of me than I am of it, but I believe that would be impossible. And I don't care what anyone says, that thing was NOT scared of us. It just stood there, probably saying "whatcha gonna do about it"? That's when a hunting dog comes in handy. I will no longer go anywhere without Max. Raccoons may not be scared of me, but they ARE scared of him. If anyone ever finds me passed out somewhere around the house, you can be pretty sure I saw a raccoon. I'm not so sure that thing wouldn't chase me down the block even if I took off running. More scared of me than I am of it. I don't think so.
I swear I can't get out of this house fast enough. I have not yet figured out how to have Max help me INTO the house when I'm coming home from somewhere. I'll have to give that one some thought. For now, I'm just grateful that I haven't carried out my plans of downsizing the number of pets we have as I've often threatened. But I will say, that if one of those things ever comes out and fights with him (and they might...they're probably just lifting weights during the day to build up their strength) the dog is on his own. I'll do what I can do from the safety and secruity the INSIDE of the house provides. However, if one ever finds it's way into the house I will surely die of fear, and it'll make for quite the interesting obituary.
I now feel like I need to go wash my hands or take a shower or something. Does anyone else feel like they are being watched??? *shudder*
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
A beautiful day!!!
We had a great day here today weather wise! It was just perfect!
The day was a little frustrating overall--their was some kind of mix up with the A/C man and he left before Derrick could get the dogs put away and answer the door. The real estate agent didn't show up for his 6:00 appt., and I just got the answering machine when I called. Graeater's is now asking Derrick to "wait 30 days" as they were "premature in interviewing for the position" (since it doesn't exist yet...ya think??!!), but still say "he's the one". It just felt soo close.
BUT....I'm trying to put the princpal's I'm reading about in our book club books to good use.
1. Being happy is a DECISION. You have to choose to be happy and know that things will work out for the greater good even when things seem to be going poorly.
2. Things will work out, but it'll be in GOD'S TIME, not mine. Until then, I need to be willing to turn it over to him and let it go.
So, today it really hit me that our 10th!!!! Anniversary is this Friday. We have no plans. We are such slackers and procrastinators. We would like to get away for a night when mom comes in town in July, but we'd still like to do something now. We really need to get serious and figure out what we're gonna do. We should at least see if Cindy can watch the kids that night and plan something to do that evening.
And mom, I have a surprise for your birthday, and it's killing me not to tell you about it. I'm no good with surprises. Although I found out today I'm not going to have it by the 28th, but I think it'll be worth the wait!!
Well, it's cool and very comfortable in the house, both kids are sleeping, and I'm ready to take full advantage of it.
Hope you all have a good night!
The day was a little frustrating overall--their was some kind of mix up with the A/C man and he left before Derrick could get the dogs put away and answer the door. The real estate agent didn't show up for his 6:00 appt., and I just got the answering machine when I called. Graeater's is now asking Derrick to "wait 30 days" as they were "premature in interviewing for the position" (since it doesn't exist yet...ya think??!!), but still say "he's the one". It just felt soo close.
BUT....I'm trying to put the princpal's I'm reading about in our book club books to good use.
1. Being happy is a DECISION. You have to choose to be happy and know that things will work out for the greater good even when things seem to be going poorly.
2. Things will work out, but it'll be in GOD'S TIME, not mine. Until then, I need to be willing to turn it over to him and let it go.
So, today it really hit me that our 10th!!!! Anniversary is this Friday. We have no plans. We are such slackers and procrastinators. We would like to get away for a night when mom comes in town in July, but we'd still like to do something now. We really need to get serious and figure out what we're gonna do. We should at least see if Cindy can watch the kids that night and plan something to do that evening.
And mom, I have a surprise for your birthday, and it's killing me not to tell you about it. I'm no good with surprises. Although I found out today I'm not going to have it by the 28th, but I think it'll be worth the wait!!
Well, it's cool and very comfortable in the house, both kids are sleeping, and I'm ready to take full advantage of it.
Hope you all have a good night!
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Counting our blessings!
Derrick did go to St. Louis this weekend. His mom was released from the hospital yesterday, thank God. I have no doubt all the prayers she was receiving helped!
Although it was not a good reason for the get together, it was a great for him to be able to get together with his family and friends.
He checked in with me this morning and told me he'd probably be staying one more night and coming home tomorrow. I tried to be very understanding and supportive, but was disappointed (and tired...HOW do single moms do it??). So imagine my surprise when he walked in around noon! He left very early this morning to come back home. Sorry Greg...he told me you all were still sleeping when he left...he had a great time with you!
His brothers challenged him to a game of basketball, but Derrick wasn't prepared..didn't have gym shoes. So, in true boy ultra competitive form, Greg bought him a pair of shoes. Now Myles is dying for a pair that look just like them. I was down stairs doing laundry when I heard Myles scream DAAAAAAAADDDDDYYYYYYYY!!!! It was really cute.
The kids and I went to the pool this afternoon and had a great time. Myles is so much more brave than he was last year and even hung out in the big pool! Gina also brought out the dare devil side of her and started jumping off the side to me.
Now we're back home and are making a red velvet cake for Father's Day. Although we had to warn him that this one will be VERY light icing. Woops. lol
The guy that was working on our air conditioner called me today and said he could come out tomorrow to put that used unit in for us. Yay!!! And, on top of that, after tomorrow the rest of the week is supposed to be in the 70's!!
There's just something about swimming that makes us all tired. Gina is taking a nap and we're just all relaxing having cooled off and waiting for the cake to finish!! Yum.
Although it was not a good reason for the get together, it was a great for him to be able to get together with his family and friends.
He checked in with me this morning and told me he'd probably be staying one more night and coming home tomorrow. I tried to be very understanding and supportive, but was disappointed (and tired...HOW do single moms do it??). So imagine my surprise when he walked in around noon! He left very early this morning to come back home. Sorry Greg...he told me you all were still sleeping when he left...he had a great time with you!
His brothers challenged him to a game of basketball, but Derrick wasn't prepared..didn't have gym shoes. So, in true boy ultra competitive form, Greg bought him a pair of shoes. Now Myles is dying for a pair that look just like them. I was down stairs doing laundry when I heard Myles scream DAAAAAAAADDDDDYYYYYYYY!!!! It was really cute.
The kids and I went to the pool this afternoon and had a great time. Myles is so much more brave than he was last year and even hung out in the big pool! Gina also brought out the dare devil side of her and started jumping off the side to me.
Now we're back home and are making a red velvet cake for Father's Day. Although we had to warn him that this one will be VERY light icing. Woops. lol
The guy that was working on our air conditioner called me today and said he could come out tomorrow to put that used unit in for us. Yay!!! And, on top of that, after tomorrow the rest of the week is supposed to be in the 70's!!
There's just something about swimming that makes us all tired. Gina is taking a nap and we're just all relaxing having cooled off and waiting for the cake to finish!! Yum.
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Derrick's mom
For those of you that don't know, please keep her in your prayers tonight. She suffered a heart attack today.
For those of you that do know, your prayers are already working!!! God hears us!
Derrick was getting ready to get in the car and start driving, but as we've gotten more news from the family that's with her in St. Louis, he has decided to wait until morning. She had a 99% blockage in one of her arteries, but it sounds as though they have been able to open that and she is being transferred to a different hospital. His brother Will tells us they are even saying she may be released early next week!!! Praise God!
So at this point, he's considering waiting a week to go be with her when he can actually spend some quality time with her AT HOME when she may really be desiring company vs rushing to be with her tomorrow in the hospital. We'll see. He'll call Will in the morning to get an update on her at that point and then decide for sure what he needs to do.
So prayers for Annette for healing, and for her entire family for strength and peace.
Give your loved ones an extra squeeze tonight and make sure you know how much you love them. Times like this instantly make you think about all the things you should have done or said when you realize you may have missed your opportunity.
To all of those reading this, I LOVE YOU!!
Derrick and Ally
For those of you that do know, your prayers are already working!!! God hears us!
Derrick was getting ready to get in the car and start driving, but as we've gotten more news from the family that's with her in St. Louis, he has decided to wait until morning. She had a 99% blockage in one of her arteries, but it sounds as though they have been able to open that and she is being transferred to a different hospital. His brother Will tells us they are even saying she may be released early next week!!! Praise God!
So at this point, he's considering waiting a week to go be with her when he can actually spend some quality time with her AT HOME when she may really be desiring company vs rushing to be with her tomorrow in the hospital. We'll see. He'll call Will in the morning to get an update on her at that point and then decide for sure what he needs to do.
So prayers for Annette for healing, and for her entire family for strength and peace.
Give your loved ones an extra squeeze tonight and make sure you know how much you love them. Times like this instantly make you think about all the things you should have done or said when you realize you may have missed your opportunity.
To all of those reading this, I LOVE YOU!!
Derrick and Ally
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Sprinkler Fun
Tonight we came home and I turned on the sprinkler and let the kids run through it. Well, Myles ran through it, but Gina didn't seem to excited about the opportunity to run through ice cold water. What can I say? The girl may be young, but she isn't crazy. :) I'll post some pictures in the next few days.
But it has cooled off quite a bit here (down to the mid 80's) so it was nice to spend some time outside and just enjoy letting the kids be kids.
I stayed up too late last night as I just couldn't relax enough to go to sleep, and now I'm really tired. Gina is in her crib, and I think I'm going to do my best to get Myles down to sleep early tonight so I can have some time alone.
I'm craving some peace and quiet!!!
Hope you are all having a good night!
But it has cooled off quite a bit here (down to the mid 80's) so it was nice to spend some time outside and just enjoy letting the kids be kids.
I stayed up too late last night as I just couldn't relax enough to go to sleep, and now I'm really tired. Gina is in her crib, and I think I'm going to do my best to get Myles down to sleep early tonight so I can have some time alone.
I'm craving some peace and quiet!!!
Hope you are all having a good night!
Monday, June 9, 2008
Just a quick update...
As it's late and I'm tired...but hot.
Still no A/C. It's totally broken, and with the current state of things just not worth wfixing. Sooo....we're making due. Using fans, chilling in the basement, using the Y pool, etc. But it's definitely something that won't be taken for granted in the future.
We had the real estate agent come out today. So far it doesn't look like selling the house is going to be a feasible option. So....we're exploring other options. We just need to gather all the information we can from reliable sources and pray so that we make the best decisions we can.
Derrick had another interview with Graeter's today. It went really well, but also kind of odd. He's interivewing for a Regional Manager position and they love him....say he's The One. Only problem? The position doesn't actually exist yet. They are hiring a consulting firm to do a financial analysis and recommend how how the company should be restructured since it's been set up the same way since it first opened...and managers are reporting directly to the owners.
So, we'll see. Hopefully things will fall into place if it's meant to be. I'm not so sure why they have an internal recruiter looking to fill a position that doesn't exist, but who am I? At least they were really impressed with him. In the mean time he's still just following up on other leads and staying in touch with all of his contacts.
We looked at one townhouse community this weekend (Mallard Lakes) and really liked it, but are not ready to make a decision yet until some other things are resolved. In the mean time we'll just keep looking so we can get into the best place for us as soon as we're ready. Regardless I'm excited about the fresh start.
We went to the pool at the Y today and the kids had a blast. I wish I had my camera.
We came home and made dinner and then played outside. You know it's bad when it's probably about 15 degrees cooler outside than it is in your own house. lol I would have gone out earlier had I known that!!
When we came in Myles wanted to get a shower...and Gina joined him. It was hysterical. She's always standing up in the bathtub though, so it actually worked. She loved it. That was truly a Kodak moment.
Gina is now saying "woof woof" when you ask her what a dog says. It cracks me up, so I ask her constantly. It's just so funny the way she says it. She also calls Cindy "inny" and is putting two words together (mommy here, daddy up, etc). So it's fun to see her growing and learning.
Well, I'm in a room with no fan and I'm starting to drip onto the keyboard...that's a sign I need to go.
Hope you're all having a good night.
Talk to you soon.
Still no A/C. It's totally broken, and with the current state of things just not worth wfixing. Sooo....we're making due. Using fans, chilling in the basement, using the Y pool, etc. But it's definitely something that won't be taken for granted in the future.
We had the real estate agent come out today. So far it doesn't look like selling the house is going to be a feasible option. So....we're exploring other options. We just need to gather all the information we can from reliable sources and pray so that we make the best decisions we can.
Derrick had another interview with Graeter's today. It went really well, but also kind of odd. He's interivewing for a Regional Manager position and they love him....say he's The One. Only problem? The position doesn't actually exist yet. They are hiring a consulting firm to do a financial analysis and recommend how how the company should be restructured since it's been set up the same way since it first opened...and managers are reporting directly to the owners.
So, we'll see. Hopefully things will fall into place if it's meant to be. I'm not so sure why they have an internal recruiter looking to fill a position that doesn't exist, but who am I? At least they were really impressed with him. In the mean time he's still just following up on other leads and staying in touch with all of his contacts.
We looked at one townhouse community this weekend (Mallard Lakes) and really liked it, but are not ready to make a decision yet until some other things are resolved. In the mean time we'll just keep looking so we can get into the best place for us as soon as we're ready. Regardless I'm excited about the fresh start.
We went to the pool at the Y today and the kids had a blast. I wish I had my camera.
We came home and made dinner and then played outside. You know it's bad when it's probably about 15 degrees cooler outside than it is in your own house. lol I would have gone out earlier had I known that!!
When we came in Myles wanted to get a shower...and Gina joined him. It was hysterical. She's always standing up in the bathtub though, so it actually worked. She loved it. That was truly a Kodak moment.
Gina is now saying "woof woof" when you ask her what a dog says. It cracks me up, so I ask her constantly. It's just so funny the way she says it. She also calls Cindy "inny" and is putting two words together (mommy here, daddy up, etc). So it's fun to see her growing and learning.
Well, I'm in a room with no fan and I'm starting to drip onto the keyboard...that's a sign I need to go.
Hope you're all having a good night.
Talk to you soon.
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
Another test??
I thought I was out of school! Yet...somehow it seems like we keep getting the tests that are just a part of life thrown at us.
We had two people come out today to take a look at our air conditioner. Both think the unit needs to be replaced. Really?! Now?! When we're trying to get out of here? I really wish it had just waited a few more months!
We have one more person coming on Friday to take another look, and from talking to him on the phone, I have confidence in him and he feels like he'll be able to fix it.
I don't like to think of myself as being a "prissy" girl, but I sure am spoiled when it comes to A/C. It's funny how a convenience quickly becomes an expectation.
The good part is that some of the topics in WWG have been popping in my mind and helping to keep things in perspective. I know that we have just been working too hard to not have things fall into place. I just can't let this set back distract me. I know it will all work out the way it's supposed to.
Kim, it's a good thing you're in HH...had you been home today would have been a day I would have been calling for a "Kim talk". You have such a knack of putting things in perspective for me.
I finally got Myles to fall asleep early tonight. Boy did he need it. Do you know where he fell asleep? On top of the coffee table, complete with a blanket and pillow. Hey...whatever works.
We had our first donation pick up today and are scheduled for another one tomorrow. I just finished bringing up some more stuff from downstairs, and then got a shower to freshen up. I never realized how big the basement is. :) Every bit we do motivates me to do even more as it keeps coming together.
Now we just need a collective prayer and the whole group to cross their fingers that the house can sell quickly and without major issues. I have to admit, I'm proud of myself for facing my fears head on. I've always had SO much anxiety about selling the house...not really related to leaving it, just all the work it would take to get it ready, have open houses and showings, etc. But I'm doing it! I know it will all pay off. I just have to stay positive.
We had two people come out today to take a look at our air conditioner. Both think the unit needs to be replaced. Really?! Now?! When we're trying to get out of here? I really wish it had just waited a few more months!
We have one more person coming on Friday to take another look, and from talking to him on the phone, I have confidence in him and he feels like he'll be able to fix it.
I don't like to think of myself as being a "prissy" girl, but I sure am spoiled when it comes to A/C. It's funny how a convenience quickly becomes an expectation.
The good part is that some of the topics in WWG have been popping in my mind and helping to keep things in perspective. I know that we have just been working too hard to not have things fall into place. I just can't let this set back distract me. I know it will all work out the way it's supposed to.
Kim, it's a good thing you're in HH...had you been home today would have been a day I would have been calling for a "Kim talk". You have such a knack of putting things in perspective for me.
I finally got Myles to fall asleep early tonight. Boy did he need it. Do you know where he fell asleep? On top of the coffee table, complete with a blanket and pillow. Hey...whatever works.
We had our first donation pick up today and are scheduled for another one tomorrow. I just finished bringing up some more stuff from downstairs, and then got a shower to freshen up. I never realized how big the basement is. :) Every bit we do motivates me to do even more as it keeps coming together.
Now we just need a collective prayer and the whole group to cross their fingers that the house can sell quickly and without major issues. I have to admit, I'm proud of myself for facing my fears head on. I've always had SO much anxiety about selling the house...not really related to leaving it, just all the work it would take to get it ready, have open houses and showings, etc. But I'm doing it! I know it will all pay off. I just have to stay positive.
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Hey everyone!
It's funny how it sometimes seems like there is nothing going on, yet so much at the same time. Do you know what I mean? Maybe it's because what's "going on" isn't particulary fun or exciting, but it just keeps us busy.
We have 2 donation picks ups scheduled for the next two days. I'm looking forward to getting our garage back.
We have a real estate agent coming by this Monday. Kim, we called Larry Bebe and mentioned I got his name from you all. He was really nice and remembered you well. (I guess a bazillion moves will do that to a person) lol So, I'm looking forward to meeting with him and hearing what he has to say and getting this process started.
Greg, if it doesn't sell soon, we may be out for an extended visit in Arizona. :)
It's funny how the house looks so different with a few minor changes, and how clean it is now. It's a little sad to be leaving...heck, this is the only HOUSE I've ever lived in...but I know it's time. The biggest decisions in life aren't always the easiest to make, but having faith in God and knowing he'll lead us down the right path if we just listen for him helps.
Things seem to be slowing down a little for Derrick on the job hunt. He's still had sesveral interviews, but it just doens't seem like he's getting as many calls these days as he was at one point. So, we're trying to regroup and refocus.
Kim-I'm not perfect about my quiet time, but I have been doing a pretty darn good job. The weekends is when I tend to slack. During the week it's much easier for me to focus. Although I really need to get serious about WWG if I'm going to finish it. I really like it, and the story about his dog passing literally had me crying...are you to that point yet? I had to put it down and come back. The part when God said "He won't give me the ball". Please. Sob City.
Myles is having a really rough night tonight. He hasn't been this way in quite a while. I think it's because he went to bed last night. Ocassionally he just has nights where he just can't get to sleep...and we all pay for it the next day. So today he has no patience and everything is making him angry. But, I have little Gina in bed, so I'm going to go spend a little one-on-one time with him before I force his little self to fall asleep.
Hope you all have a good night.
Oh..and mom...the A/C people are coming tomorrow as well, so we'll finally cool down. :)
We have 2 donation picks ups scheduled for the next two days. I'm looking forward to getting our garage back.
We have a real estate agent coming by this Monday. Kim, we called Larry Bebe and mentioned I got his name from you all. He was really nice and remembered you well. (I guess a bazillion moves will do that to a person) lol So, I'm looking forward to meeting with him and hearing what he has to say and getting this process started.
Greg, if it doesn't sell soon, we may be out for an extended visit in Arizona. :)
It's funny how the house looks so different with a few minor changes, and how clean it is now. It's a little sad to be leaving...heck, this is the only HOUSE I've ever lived in...but I know it's time. The biggest decisions in life aren't always the easiest to make, but having faith in God and knowing he'll lead us down the right path if we just listen for him helps.
Things seem to be slowing down a little for Derrick on the job hunt. He's still had sesveral interviews, but it just doens't seem like he's getting as many calls these days as he was at one point. So, we're trying to regroup and refocus.
Kim-I'm not perfect about my quiet time, but I have been doing a pretty darn good job. The weekends is when I tend to slack. During the week it's much easier for me to focus. Although I really need to get serious about WWG if I'm going to finish it. I really like it, and the story about his dog passing literally had me crying...are you to that point yet? I had to put it down and come back. The part when God said "He won't give me the ball". Please. Sob City.
Myles is having a really rough night tonight. He hasn't been this way in quite a while. I think it's because he went to bed last night. Ocassionally he just has nights where he just can't get to sleep...and we all pay for it the next day. So today he has no patience and everything is making him angry. But, I have little Gina in bed, so I'm going to go spend a little one-on-one time with him before I force his little self to fall asleep.
Hope you all have a good night.
Oh..and mom...the A/C people are coming tomorrow as well, so we'll finally cool down. :)
Monday, June 2, 2008
Whew, what a week
Well, we've got a lot done this week. We have two donation pick up's scheduled for later in the week to start picking up the baby clothes, toys, old furniture, etc. We've gotten rid of lots of trash, and we're really making progress. I've gone through all of our closets and the kitchen cabinets. This is definitely some serious spring cleaning!!!
I spent most of my evenings last week carrying things up from the basement and out to the garage, hence my absence. I'm glad that phase of it is over.
Derrick and I tried to carry up an old desk from the basement last night and about killed ourselves in the process. In hind sight, it was probably good material for America's Funniest Home videos, but at the time, I thought for sure one of us was gonna be laying on the ground being crushed by a heavy desk!! And the sad part is, we didn't even accomplish our mission. There was no way I was gonna be able to lift that thing all the way up.
Today we're both sore and bruised up from that little fiasco along with all the other work we've been doing.
Today was our meeting downtown with the IRS. I've definitely had more fun, less stressful afternoons, but all in all it went okay. At least the girl was nice and now we have it mainly behind us.
Although, true to form in "if we didn't have bad luck we'd have no luck at all" category, now our air conditioner isn't working at the house or in Derrick's car and Derrick has a flat tire. It really does shock me how much stuff gets thrown at us sometimes. Maybe I'm just feeling sorry for myself. I mean, I know everyone has "their stuff", but it really does seem like we get more than our fair share sometimes...or at least in too short of a time frame.
One of our neighbors brought down a couple of his grandson's old toys for Myles today and he is SO HAPPY. He is in love with his Little Tykes Couzy Coupe that looks like a police car. He's convinced he's a police man now! It was really cute until he refused to go to bed because he didn't want to stop playing with it.
Gina is doing well too. She's saying a few more words. Tonight she even put two words together: "Mommy, here". Although yesterday she was playing with Myles' toy computer and said "heya" (here) as she proceeded to bust my lip with it. I literally started crying. Man, that hurts. The inside of my lip is cut and it's swollen. Had she got my nose I know she would have broken it. Tonight she climbed up into my recliner, looked at me with that little coniving grin and said "mine". It's a good thing she's cute. Little rascal. She's so similar yet so different from Myles. She is a blanket cuddling, doll snuggling ,hand holding, loves to kiss girl that could make a grown man cry with her pouty lip "look through the eyelashes" look she gives you when she's upset. She is small but mighty and either doesn't know or doesn't care that she is the smallest and youngest child the sitter watches. If you were to ask her I'm sure she thinks she's in charge. Today when I went to pick her up she wanted to get down outside. Apparently she wanted to sit on the step and relax for a few minutes. She very slowly, and very cautiously started walking backwards with her butt sticking out, ready to sit. Instead of just turning around and looking, she'd try to sit, realize she was too far away and take a couple more slow steps backwards until her little booty hit the porch step. Then she sat down, clapped her hands and smiled. All was right in her world, and she gave Cindy and I quite a laugh. It must be in the genes to do everything the hard way. :)
I spent most of my evenings last week carrying things up from the basement and out to the garage, hence my absence. I'm glad that phase of it is over.
Derrick and I tried to carry up an old desk from the basement last night and about killed ourselves in the process. In hind sight, it was probably good material for America's Funniest Home videos, but at the time, I thought for sure one of us was gonna be laying on the ground being crushed by a heavy desk!! And the sad part is, we didn't even accomplish our mission. There was no way I was gonna be able to lift that thing all the way up.
Today we're both sore and bruised up from that little fiasco along with all the other work we've been doing.
Today was our meeting downtown with the IRS. I've definitely had more fun, less stressful afternoons, but all in all it went okay. At least the girl was nice and now we have it mainly behind us.
Although, true to form in "if we didn't have bad luck we'd have no luck at all" category, now our air conditioner isn't working at the house or in Derrick's car and Derrick has a flat tire. It really does shock me how much stuff gets thrown at us sometimes. Maybe I'm just feeling sorry for myself. I mean, I know everyone has "their stuff", but it really does seem like we get more than our fair share sometimes...or at least in too short of a time frame.
One of our neighbors brought down a couple of his grandson's old toys for Myles today and he is SO HAPPY. He is in love with his Little Tykes Couzy Coupe that looks like a police car. He's convinced he's a police man now! It was really cute until he refused to go to bed because he didn't want to stop playing with it.
Gina is doing well too. She's saying a few more words. Tonight she even put two words together: "Mommy, here". Although yesterday she was playing with Myles' toy computer and said "heya" (here) as she proceeded to bust my lip with it. I literally started crying. Man, that hurts. The inside of my lip is cut and it's swollen. Had she got my nose I know she would have broken it. Tonight she climbed up into my recliner, looked at me with that little coniving grin and said "mine". It's a good thing she's cute. Little rascal. She's so similar yet so different from Myles. She is a blanket cuddling, doll snuggling ,hand holding, loves to kiss girl that could make a grown man cry with her pouty lip "look through the eyelashes" look she gives you when she's upset. She is small but mighty and either doesn't know or doesn't care that she is the smallest and youngest child the sitter watches. If you were to ask her I'm sure she thinks she's in charge. Today when I went to pick her up she wanted to get down outside. Apparently she wanted to sit on the step and relax for a few minutes. She very slowly, and very cautiously started walking backwards with her butt sticking out, ready to sit. Instead of just turning around and looking, she'd try to sit, realize she was too far away and take a couple more slow steps backwards until her little booty hit the porch step. Then she sat down, clapped her hands and smiled. All was right in her world, and she gave Cindy and I quite a laugh. It must be in the genes to do everything the hard way. :)
Sunday, May 25, 2008
I sure am tired
considering I haven't really done anything. Don't you hate days like that when you're just exhausted for no good reason?
It's another beautiful day here today. We went to church and the kids both had a good time. Gina even walked right into her class to play with the other little girls, and Myles went to his room without even so much as a good bye. That is really a good feeling.
We then went and had a nutritious lunch at McDonalds. lol Myles and I went to Target to return yet another radio that I couldn't get to play K-Love at work. I just got diapers and wipes instead. Can't go wrong with those. Although I'm not so sure why I spend my Mother's Day present on stuff for the kids (besides a pedometer and some new make up I tried).
I was hoping we'd get more cleaning accomplished this weekend than what we have, but I'm having a hard time getting motivated. We really wanted to get a bunch of stuff cleaned up from the basement before the trash man picks up tomorrow, but we'll see. At the beginning of the week I need to call someone to come pick some of the toys and clothes up, but I guess first we have to get it all upstairs and out to the garage. That should be fun.
Derrick has a big interview on Tuesday that would be a great opportunity, so please keep your fingers and toes crossed and keep us in your prayers. We're really hoping June is the month for us.
Well, I hear Myles outside talking to the girls that live behind us that I don't like, and they are inviting themselves into our house. Gina is crying because I won't let her outside with out me, so I better run.
Hope you're all having a good day! God Bless.
It's another beautiful day here today. We went to church and the kids both had a good time. Gina even walked right into her class to play with the other little girls, and Myles went to his room without even so much as a good bye. That is really a good feeling.
We then went and had a nutritious lunch at McDonalds. lol Myles and I went to Target to return yet another radio that I couldn't get to play K-Love at work. I just got diapers and wipes instead. Can't go wrong with those. Although I'm not so sure why I spend my Mother's Day present on stuff for the kids (besides a pedometer and some new make up I tried).
I was hoping we'd get more cleaning accomplished this weekend than what we have, but I'm having a hard time getting motivated. We really wanted to get a bunch of stuff cleaned up from the basement before the trash man picks up tomorrow, but we'll see. At the beginning of the week I need to call someone to come pick some of the toys and clothes up, but I guess first we have to get it all upstairs and out to the garage. That should be fun.
Derrick has a big interview on Tuesday that would be a great opportunity, so please keep your fingers and toes crossed and keep us in your prayers. We're really hoping June is the month for us.
Well, I hear Myles outside talking to the girls that live behind us that I don't like, and they are inviting themselves into our house. Gina is crying because I won't let her outside with out me, so I better run.
Hope you're all having a good day! God Bless.
Saturday, May 24, 2008
What a beautiful day!
It was such a pretty day here today! I can't believe how cool it still is considering this is Memorial Day Weekend, but I'm not complaining. I'm sure our electric bill will reflect the fact we haven't needed air yet, which is nice!
Myles and I met his teacher, Mrs. Stewart, at school briefly today to get his back pack back. When we went to his party for his last day of school I totally forgot about it. She was sweet enough to call and meet me at the school to return it. I'm so glad I did that too, because there were some really cute things in there that represented his first year of preschool. We have already started a memory box for this first year of school to keep some of the craft projects that he's done, and now we can add his Preschool Diploma, a book that represents each of the shapes they studied every month, and a book of self-portraits Myles drew each month. It's so cute.
Derrick and Myles then went to Harbon Park to play soccer. Myles is SUCH a daddy's boy right now, wanting to go everywhere he goes and do everything he does. It's sweet to watch. It's nice that Derrick is home on the weekends to spend so much time with us now, especially because with our opposite schedules we barely see him through out the week.
Overall it's been a really good day, but not nearly as productive as I had planned. We wanted to work on getting the basement cleaned out and start getting some stuff thrown out/donated, and we haven't even touched it. Oh well. Guess I shouldn't focus on that too much since it's supposed to be a fun, holiday weekend.
Right now both of the kids are asleep and Derrick is out working in the yard. I'm trying to enjoy some quiet time alone, but I'm feeling sick to my stomach. I think I've had way too many sweets today. Ugh. So anyway, I'm off to relax for a little while. Hope you all had a good Saturday!
Myles and I met his teacher, Mrs. Stewart, at school briefly today to get his back pack back. When we went to his party for his last day of school I totally forgot about it. She was sweet enough to call and meet me at the school to return it. I'm so glad I did that too, because there were some really cute things in there that represented his first year of preschool. We have already started a memory box for this first year of school to keep some of the craft projects that he's done, and now we can add his Preschool Diploma, a book that represents each of the shapes they studied every month, and a book of self-portraits Myles drew each month. It's so cute.
Derrick and Myles then went to Harbon Park to play soccer. Myles is SUCH a daddy's boy right now, wanting to go everywhere he goes and do everything he does. It's sweet to watch. It's nice that Derrick is home on the weekends to spend so much time with us now, especially because with our opposite schedules we barely see him through out the week.
Overall it's been a really good day, but not nearly as productive as I had planned. We wanted to work on getting the basement cleaned out and start getting some stuff thrown out/donated, and we haven't even touched it. Oh well. Guess I shouldn't focus on that too much since it's supposed to be a fun, holiday weekend.
Right now both of the kids are asleep and Derrick is out working in the yard. I'm trying to enjoy some quiet time alone, but I'm feeling sick to my stomach. I think I've had way too many sweets today. Ugh. So anyway, I'm off to relax for a little while. Hope you all had a good Saturday!
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Some pictures
These are from the trip we took to the Air Force museum before Stacey left, and include her two boys, Eli and Chase, and also a few from Myles' last day of preschool. More on that in another post. I should add that Myles took the pictures of Chase, Gina, Eli and the super duper close up of himself. lol
By the way, in the picture of Myles with his school friends, check out the girl sitting next to him. That cracks me up!
By the way, in the picture of Myles with his school friends, check out the girl sitting next to him. That cracks me up!
Monday, May 19, 2008
Monday, Monday.
I've had a good day so far. I went into work this morning for a few hours, and I actually kind of enjoy doing the half day. I'm able to get out of there and still enjoy my day, plus it gets me up and showered and all that good stuff.
Gina had an appt today with her therapy people and the boys stayed home with her for that. They made a list of words she says and just want us to add on to it over the next couple of weeks as we hear new things. I'm not so sure she's actually saying all the words they wrote down, but maybe I'm not giving her enough credit.
Derrick said they were letting her play with play do, but kept handing her a plastic fork to poke holes in it, and she kept trying to eat the play do with the fork. I agree that'd be a little confusing since she's just learning to use utensils right now. He said it was a good appt though and the next time a speech therapist will come out to evaluate where she is and provide any support. Really I think she's totally fine, but just feel safer having them come periodically to keep track of everything.
Derrick didn't have any interviews today, so we actually got to spend a couple of hours together before he went to work, which was nice.
We did go to the new church again this weekend, Fairfield Church of Christ. I think we both liked it a little better this time. Both of the kids seemed happy and comfortable there. Gina went in the room without even crying...just a little pouty lip. But when we picked her up she was sitting at the picnic table having a pretend tea party just as happy as could be.
Myles went right up to his room, told them his name, and went on it. The guy even picked him up gave him a high 5, and Myles spoke to him. You all know how unusual that can be for my shy, akward Myles.
We ran into a couple of people we know as well, which was nice. One was our neighbor, and the other was one of my previous back up babysitters that watched Myles for about 3 weeks at one time. It was great to see her and her kids again and for her to see Myles and Gina. Gina is the age Myles was when she watched him!!
Our situation right now is certainly not ideal, but there are some upsides to it. I really think God put us in a situation where we'd have to strongly re-evaluate a lot of things, and that's what we're doing. It's nice to have my quiet alone time at night to do my devotionals and journaling, and the time together on the weekends is such a blessing. Myles has really enjoyed having Derrick here more, and I do too since it means I can sleep a little later and usually get breakfast cooked.
Hopefully he'll end up with a new job soon that allows us to have similar benefits.
Talk to you all soon!
Gina had an appt today with her therapy people and the boys stayed home with her for that. They made a list of words she says and just want us to add on to it over the next couple of weeks as we hear new things. I'm not so sure she's actually saying all the words they wrote down, but maybe I'm not giving her enough credit.
Derrick said they were letting her play with play do, but kept handing her a plastic fork to poke holes in it, and she kept trying to eat the play do with the fork. I agree that'd be a little confusing since she's just learning to use utensils right now. He said it was a good appt though and the next time a speech therapist will come out to evaluate where she is and provide any support. Really I think she's totally fine, but just feel safer having them come periodically to keep track of everything.
Derrick didn't have any interviews today, so we actually got to spend a couple of hours together before he went to work, which was nice.
We did go to the new church again this weekend, Fairfield Church of Christ. I think we both liked it a little better this time. Both of the kids seemed happy and comfortable there. Gina went in the room without even crying...just a little pouty lip. But when we picked her up she was sitting at the picnic table having a pretend tea party just as happy as could be.
Myles went right up to his room, told them his name, and went on it. The guy even picked him up gave him a high 5, and Myles spoke to him. You all know how unusual that can be for my shy, akward Myles.
We ran into a couple of people we know as well, which was nice. One was our neighbor, and the other was one of my previous back up babysitters that watched Myles for about 3 weeks at one time. It was great to see her and her kids again and for her to see Myles and Gina. Gina is the age Myles was when she watched him!!
Our situation right now is certainly not ideal, but there are some upsides to it. I really think God put us in a situation where we'd have to strongly re-evaluate a lot of things, and that's what we're doing. It's nice to have my quiet alone time at night to do my devotionals and journaling, and the time together on the weekends is such a blessing. Myles has really enjoyed having Derrick here more, and I do too since it means I can sleep a little later and usually get breakfast cooked.
Hopefully he'll end up with a new job soon that allows us to have similar benefits.
Talk to you all soon!
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Another week flies by!
I can't believe it's Thursday already! With Derrick working second shift, my days are just flying by. It's a little strange to be alone with the kids all evening and going to bed in an empty house! In the beginning, I have to admit it was slightly nice, probably because it was new, QUIET, and I looked at it as alone time.
The newness is wearing off though. Although, I guess I should be careful what I say, as the hours have worked out so well for Derrick to do his main job hunt since he has almost all day. He only has one more week to work second shift, and then he'll have to switch to first. Hopefully he'll still be able to get in enough hours, and have time for all the interviews/meetings.
I know these have been long days for both of us. I'm so proud of my husband and not only how hard he's working, but how positive he's staying while doing it. He's always been a night owl, and now that he's working until 1 am anyway, he often doesn't go to bed until 3 or 4 am. Then he gets up when he hears Myles awake and has a hard time falling back to sleep knowing everything he has to do. He's had so many appointments with recruiters, interviews and other things to take care of, which is great on one hand, but also exhausing to do all day and then go into work. And then to top it off, after all that, he'll be staying home with the kids all day tomorrow. I don't know how he does it all on such little sleep.
We're both thinking positively about his career job search and are hoping the right thing comes along soon. The big problem we're running into is a lot of people are wanting him to relocate. As most of you know, that'd be really hard for me. So keep praying that the right job...with the right hours, and really right pay...comes along soon. Derrick and I will both be SO appreciative and look at things so much differently now. We've both learned a lot.
Thanks to all of you for all of your support and kind words to keep us lifted up when we're down. I'm lucky to have a family I can count on.
Well, Gina is sleeping and I'm gonna try to get Myles to go to sleep here soon too so I can continue reading the book for our book club. And enjoy that quiet time!!!
Hope you all have a good night!!
The newness is wearing off though. Although, I guess I should be careful what I say, as the hours have worked out so well for Derrick to do his main job hunt since he has almost all day. He only has one more week to work second shift, and then he'll have to switch to first. Hopefully he'll still be able to get in enough hours, and have time for all the interviews/meetings.
I know these have been long days for both of us. I'm so proud of my husband and not only how hard he's working, but how positive he's staying while doing it. He's always been a night owl, and now that he's working until 1 am anyway, he often doesn't go to bed until 3 or 4 am. Then he gets up when he hears Myles awake and has a hard time falling back to sleep knowing everything he has to do. He's had so many appointments with recruiters, interviews and other things to take care of, which is great on one hand, but also exhausing to do all day and then go into work. And then to top it off, after all that, he'll be staying home with the kids all day tomorrow. I don't know how he does it all on such little sleep.
We're both thinking positively about his career job search and are hoping the right thing comes along soon. The big problem we're running into is a lot of people are wanting him to relocate. As most of you know, that'd be really hard for me. So keep praying that the right job...with the right hours, and really right pay...comes along soon. Derrick and I will both be SO appreciative and look at things so much differently now. We've both learned a lot.
Thanks to all of you for all of your support and kind words to keep us lifted up when we're down. I'm lucky to have a family I can count on.
Well, Gina is sleeping and I'm gonna try to get Myles to go to sleep here soon too so I can continue reading the book for our book club. And enjoy that quiet time!!!
Hope you all have a good night!!
Sunday, May 11, 2008
An update on our "church hopping"
This morning we went to Fairfield Church of Christ. My sitter grew up going to that church, and her family still does.
I cannot say we fell in love with it at first sight. However, we did both really like it. I think this one is at least worth devoting some time to before we decide for sure.
Both of the kids did great. When we picked Gina up we caught her still having a tea party with one of the care takers. It was so cute! They said she did great, which is not very common for her in a new place, so that was very encouraging.
We then went to pick up Myles. One of the teachers in there was a man, and he told us that he and Myles had bonded. Myles agreed (silently) and gave him a high five on the way out. Also a pleasant surprise and reaction for Mr. Slow to Warm Up.
The sermon was much more similar to John Wesley, which was a good thing, especially for Derrick. Today probably wasn't a "typical" Sunday for them since it was Mother's Day, but we did both enjoy it. It's always a little odd and uncomfortable being in a new place, not familiar with the structure of it all.
I would ultimately like to connect with other people my age, and I was a little surprised at how many older people were there (I don't mean older as in "older than us"...I mean older, like in their 70's), but there were some younger couples there as well. They also offer a lot of small groups, and that's probably where we'll connect.
Everyone was very warm and welcoming, and the fact the kids had a great time goes a long way with me.
So that's our update for now!
I cannot say we fell in love with it at first sight. However, we did both really like it. I think this one is at least worth devoting some time to before we decide for sure.
Both of the kids did great. When we picked Gina up we caught her still having a tea party with one of the care takers. It was so cute! They said she did great, which is not very common for her in a new place, so that was very encouraging.
We then went to pick up Myles. One of the teachers in there was a man, and he told us that he and Myles had bonded. Myles agreed (silently) and gave him a high five on the way out. Also a pleasant surprise and reaction for Mr. Slow to Warm Up.
The sermon was much more similar to John Wesley, which was a good thing, especially for Derrick. Today probably wasn't a "typical" Sunday for them since it was Mother's Day, but we did both enjoy it. It's always a little odd and uncomfortable being in a new place, not familiar with the structure of it all.
I would ultimately like to connect with other people my age, and I was a little surprised at how many older people were there (I don't mean older as in "older than us"...I mean older, like in their 70's), but there were some younger couples there as well. They also offer a lot of small groups, and that's probably where we'll connect.
Everyone was very warm and welcoming, and the fact the kids had a great time goes a long way with me.
So that's our update for now!
A couple sweet moments to remember:
Yesterday we rented a truck from Budget rental trucks, much to Myles delight. As the kids and I waited in the car for Derrick to complete the paperwork, Myles looked around and asked which truck we were going to get.
I pointed out the rental truck parked directly in front of us, and he said "that one? We're gonna get the "B" truck"? I had to smile as he noticed the word Budget on the truck. My sweet boy, so proud he recognizes his letters, couldn't wait for us to take home the "B" truck.
As we were getting ready for church this morning, Myles saw Derrick shaving. Myles asked if he could have "some shave". As I watched Derrick rub shaving cream on Myles' face and wipe it off stroke by stroke with a wash cloth, I wanted to get my camera to take a picture, but it was too sweet to walk away. They were both so happy.
Then, realizing we must be going somewhere, Myles said "Are we going to get a "B" truck again today? :)
Gina has learned to say no by shaking her head back and forth. It doesn't sound like that big of a deal, but for some reason she can crack all of us up when we ask her a question and her little head full of curls shakes back and forth. It's just so cute. That girl has some looks that could make a grown man cry.
Myles asked her if he could have a kiss, and like a true girl, she shook her head back and forth to say "no". Myles laughed and said "mommy, she's a-larry-ous". Hearing that made me crack up. Yes, Myles, she is hillarious. That's one mispronunciation I just can't correct yet.
These are the moments that seem too few and far between when we get caught up in the details of life. But when we actually allow ourselves to slow down and enjoy our lives instead of just going through the motions to get *through* each day, we can recognize and cherish these moments as they happen.
Thank you God for making me a mother. I often say to people "I love my kids more than you can imagine". But I can't say that to you. Not only can you imagine how much I love them, you know *exactly* how much. And you love me, your child, even more.
Thank you God for your love and for providing us with a day to slow down and enjoy some sweet moments together as a family. Please continue to draw me closer to you so that I may not only learn more about you, but so that I can also teach my children about you. I hope that by the time my children are my age they know you infinitely better than I do now.
Hope you all had a good day also!
Ally
I pointed out the rental truck parked directly in front of us, and he said "that one? We're gonna get the "B" truck"? I had to smile as he noticed the word Budget on the truck. My sweet boy, so proud he recognizes his letters, couldn't wait for us to take home the "B" truck.
As we were getting ready for church this morning, Myles saw Derrick shaving. Myles asked if he could have "some shave". As I watched Derrick rub shaving cream on Myles' face and wipe it off stroke by stroke with a wash cloth, I wanted to get my camera to take a picture, but it was too sweet to walk away. They were both so happy.
Then, realizing we must be going somewhere, Myles said "Are we going to get a "B" truck again today? :)
Gina has learned to say no by shaking her head back and forth. It doesn't sound like that big of a deal, but for some reason she can crack all of us up when we ask her a question and her little head full of curls shakes back and forth. It's just so cute. That girl has some looks that could make a grown man cry.
Myles asked her if he could have a kiss, and like a true girl, she shook her head back and forth to say "no". Myles laughed and said "mommy, she's a-larry-ous". Hearing that made me crack up. Yes, Myles, she is hillarious. That's one mispronunciation I just can't correct yet.
These are the moments that seem too few and far between when we get caught up in the details of life. But when we actually allow ourselves to slow down and enjoy our lives instead of just going through the motions to get *through* each day, we can recognize and cherish these moments as they happen.
Thank you God for making me a mother. I often say to people "I love my kids more than you can imagine". But I can't say that to you. Not only can you imagine how much I love them, you know *exactly* how much. And you love me, your child, even more.
Thank you God for your love and for providing us with a day to slow down and enjoy some sweet moments together as a family. Please continue to draw me closer to you so that I may not only learn more about you, but so that I can also teach my children about you. I hope that by the time my children are my age they know you infinitely better than I do now.
Hope you all had a good day also!
Ally
Happy Mother's Day 2008!
To all of those mother's out there, I hope you've had a blessed day!
I found a couple of poem's I really enjoyed I thought I'd share. I hope one of them speaks to you as they did me.
Mother's Love
Her love is like an island
In life's ocean, vast and wide
A peaceful, quiet shelter
From the wind, the rain, the tide.
'Tis bound on the north by Hope,
By Patience on the West,
By tender Counsel on the South
And on the East by Rest.
Above it like a beacon light
Shine Faith, and Truth, and Prayer;
And thro' the changing scenes of life
I find a haven there.
- Author Unknown
Real Mothers
Real Mothers don't eat quiche; they don't have time to make it.
Real Mothers know that their kitchen utensils are probably in the sandbox.
Real Mothers often have sticky floors, filthy ovens and happy kids.
Real Mothers know that dried playdough doesn't come out of shag carpet.
Real Mothers sometimes ask "why me?" and get their answer when a little voice says, "because I love you best."
Real Mothers know that a child's growth is not measured by height or years or grade. . .
It is marked by the progression of Mama to Mommy to Mother.
- Author Unknown.
God's Masterpiece Is Mother
God took the fragrance of a flower...
The majesty of a tree...
The gentleness of morning dew...
The calm of a quiet sea...
The beauty of the twilight hour...
The soul of a starry night...
The laughter of a rippling brook...
The grace of a bird in flight...
Then God fashioned from these things
A creation like no other,
And when his masterpiece was through
He called it simply - Mother.
- Herbert Farnham
Parents' Prayer
O Father, our hearts are filled
with a great happiness.
For you have seen fit
to bless us with a child.
You have sent us one of
your own little angels
to love and protect.
We are aware of the great
responsibility that is ours
and we are humble.
We realize the honor
you have bestowed upon us
and we are grateful.
Great that we may be
ever patient and loving,
living in such a way
as to set a shining example
for our little one.
And as we seek to set
those tiny feet upon the paths
of righteousness, be ever with us.
May our home be a place of love
and harmony where your Spirit
is ever present. And may
our child find you in each
activity of our family life.
Bless us, we pray,
and walk beside us through
all our days together. Amen.
- Norman Vincent Peale
These are the Years
These are the years, the gentle years,
the soft and sentimental years
when wee little fingers
reach and touch
and little eyes gaze
with wonder and trust,
when you love so tenderly
and so so much,
these are the gentle years.
These are the years, the rainbow years,
the quiet, walk-on-tiptoes years,
the years of laughter
and smiles and sighs
when both of you watch
with misty eyes
the tiny bed
where a cherub lies,
these are the rainbow years.
These are the years, the tender years,
the blissful, sweet-surrender years,
when your little treasure
from above
is the soul and purpose
and center of
your plans and dreams
and dearest love,
these are the tender years.
- Barbara Burrow
I found a couple of poem's I really enjoyed I thought I'd share. I hope one of them speaks to you as they did me.
Mother's Love
Her love is like an island
In life's ocean, vast and wide
A peaceful, quiet shelter
From the wind, the rain, the tide.
'Tis bound on the north by Hope,
By Patience on the West,
By tender Counsel on the South
And on the East by Rest.
Above it like a beacon light
Shine Faith, and Truth, and Prayer;
And thro' the changing scenes of life
I find a haven there.
- Author Unknown
Real Mothers
Real Mothers don't eat quiche; they don't have time to make it.
Real Mothers know that their kitchen utensils are probably in the sandbox.
Real Mothers often have sticky floors, filthy ovens and happy kids.
Real Mothers know that dried playdough doesn't come out of shag carpet.
Real Mothers sometimes ask "why me?" and get their answer when a little voice says, "because I love you best."
Real Mothers know that a child's growth is not measured by height or years or grade. . .
It is marked by the progression of Mama to Mommy to Mother.
- Author Unknown.
God's Masterpiece Is Mother
God took the fragrance of a flower...
The majesty of a tree...
The gentleness of morning dew...
The calm of a quiet sea...
The beauty of the twilight hour...
The soul of a starry night...
The laughter of a rippling brook...
The grace of a bird in flight...
Then God fashioned from these things
A creation like no other,
And when his masterpiece was through
He called it simply - Mother.
- Herbert Farnham
Parents' Prayer
O Father, our hearts are filled
with a great happiness.
For you have seen fit
to bless us with a child.
You have sent us one of
your own little angels
to love and protect.
We are aware of the great
responsibility that is ours
and we are humble.
We realize the honor
you have bestowed upon us
and we are grateful.
Great that we may be
ever patient and loving,
living in such a way
as to set a shining example
for our little one.
And as we seek to set
those tiny feet upon the paths
of righteousness, be ever with us.
May our home be a place of love
and harmony where your Spirit
is ever present. And may
our child find you in each
activity of our family life.
Bless us, we pray,
and walk beside us through
all our days together. Amen.
- Norman Vincent Peale
These are the Years
These are the years, the gentle years,
the soft and sentimental years
when wee little fingers
reach and touch
and little eyes gaze
with wonder and trust,
when you love so tenderly
and so so much,
these are the gentle years.
These are the years, the rainbow years,
the quiet, walk-on-tiptoes years,
the years of laughter
and smiles and sighs
when both of you watch
with misty eyes
the tiny bed
where a cherub lies,
these are the rainbow years.
These are the years, the tender years,
the blissful, sweet-surrender years,
when your little treasure
from above
is the soul and purpose
and center of
your plans and dreams
and dearest love,
these are the tender years.
- Barbara Burrow
Friday, May 9, 2008
A scare with Gina
Gina scared us today. She,for some still unknown reason, kept falling at the sitters yesterday. Not a normal "toddler fall" a straight back "I'm gonna faint" fall. I was trying to be calm, but when Cindy called and said she had just fallen straight back into her TV and hit her head, I decided to take her to the doctor.
He was very thorough and didn't see any immediate explanation (ear infection, etc), but also didn't see any obvious signs of concern (dialted pupils, etc).
So, he told me to keep an eye on it for now, but told me what signs to watch for and what signs meant come back to the doctor and which meant go straight to the ER. So of course I was very scared.
Mom watched her the rest of the day though, and she seemed to be fine. I still feel like she's 'waddling' more than normal (shifting her weight side to side a lot more than usual), and just falling in general more than she usually does, but maybe I'm just being paranoid.
The kids are both home with daddy today, and he also seems to think she is acting okay. I don't know if it's my mommy gut, or just extreme mommy worry, but I'm just not so sure.
I'm just hoping she doesn't do anything like this again, and I PRAY that I don't see any of the signs that he told me to watch for that meant head straight to the ER. If I do, Derrick might as well call 911 and request a double transport, because I'll be needing medical assistance myself.
It's amazing when our kids scare us how INTENSE our instincts and love for them become.
So some extra prayers for Gina would be much appreciated!!
He was very thorough and didn't see any immediate explanation (ear infection, etc), but also didn't see any obvious signs of concern (dialted pupils, etc).
So, he told me to keep an eye on it for now, but told me what signs to watch for and what signs meant come back to the doctor and which meant go straight to the ER. So of course I was very scared.
Mom watched her the rest of the day though, and she seemed to be fine. I still feel like she's 'waddling' more than normal (shifting her weight side to side a lot more than usual), and just falling in general more than she usually does, but maybe I'm just being paranoid.
The kids are both home with daddy today, and he also seems to think she is acting okay. I don't know if it's my mommy gut, or just extreme mommy worry, but I'm just not so sure.
I'm just hoping she doesn't do anything like this again, and I PRAY that I don't see any of the signs that he told me to watch for that meant head straight to the ER. If I do, Derrick might as well call 911 and request a double transport, because I'll be needing medical assistance myself.
It's amazing when our kids scare us how INTENSE our instincts and love for them become.
So some extra prayers for Gina would be much appreciated!!
Monday, May 5, 2008
More updates and prayers
as we all know life in the Lawary family is anything but boring.
Let's see. Life has had a lot of twist and turns for us lately.
We have decided that the Vineyard is not the right place for us, but after doing some more investigating and talking to people, I think we found a church that will be what we need. We are going to go for the first time this Sunday. I have prayed that God will lead us to our new church home, so hopefully this will be it. I'm looking forward to getting settled and plugged in lately.
I have been continuing to read GOOTP and love it. I've learned so much. I was listening to K-Love today (which, btw, Kim I never answered you...K-Love is my favorite channel!!) and it was talking about how just as the middle of the road is a dangerous place for animals, it is for Christians as well. God wants us to be all in or all out. You can't hang out in the middle, choosing when you call on God, choosing when you listen to him, choosing to just spend an hour a week with him and think you're going to really know him and have a relationship. I just love that analogy. I want to be "all in" and am getting closer and closer to that every day.
Not all of you know this, but Derrick is now done with Waffle House and will be working for Kopco 2nd shift temporarily until he is able to replace his career position. Please keep him and our entire family in your prayers for him to be led to the right position and for many doors to open for us. We are so thankful to even have the opportunity for this to be a possibility for him, and neither of us take that lightly.
Derrick and I have also been praying for God to not only bring us closer to him, but also to grow closer to each other. My eyes have been opened lately and I've realized how far we've wandered away from each other...just slowly, over a period of time...until we got to a point where our relationship was too much like a "business" and not focused on love and respect as much as it should be. We want to put God first in our lives, and ask him to help us do the work that needs to be done to totally reunite us and make us as happy as we both deserve to be, and also the best possible role models we can be.
Lastly, we want to completely open ourselves up to do what needs to be done to have financial security and peace. It may not be easy, and I know we may not get the answers I want, but clearly we haven't done well when left to our own devices, so it's obviously time to let God steer that ship for a minute. It seems like right now, every time there is an "up" there is an equal or greater "down". But I know that if we have our eyes, hearts and ears open he will guide us to do what needs to be done, and with a huge leap of faith and a lot of hard work, we will get to where we need to be.
So forgive me for not blogging as much as I could be or for not commenting on other blogs like I'd like too. Right now I'm going through a period of change and it's exciting but exhausting, so bear (bare?..holy cow I'm tired) with me. I'm trying to spend my "free time" reading, journaling, etc so that I can do the work on myself that needs to be done. I know you all understand!
I love you all. Off to do my jornal and GO TO BED!!! It's been another (too) fast weekend and I know I'm going to be exhausted in the morning!
Let's see. Life has had a lot of twist and turns for us lately.
We have decided that the Vineyard is not the right place for us, but after doing some more investigating and talking to people, I think we found a church that will be what we need. We are going to go for the first time this Sunday. I have prayed that God will lead us to our new church home, so hopefully this will be it. I'm looking forward to getting settled and plugged in lately.
I have been continuing to read GOOTP and love it. I've learned so much. I was listening to K-Love today (which, btw, Kim I never answered you...K-Love is my favorite channel!!) and it was talking about how just as the middle of the road is a dangerous place for animals, it is for Christians as well. God wants us to be all in or all out. You can't hang out in the middle, choosing when you call on God, choosing when you listen to him, choosing to just spend an hour a week with him and think you're going to really know him and have a relationship. I just love that analogy. I want to be "all in" and am getting closer and closer to that every day.
Not all of you know this, but Derrick is now done with Waffle House and will be working for Kopco 2nd shift temporarily until he is able to replace his career position. Please keep him and our entire family in your prayers for him to be led to the right position and for many doors to open for us. We are so thankful to even have the opportunity for this to be a possibility for him, and neither of us take that lightly.
Derrick and I have also been praying for God to not only bring us closer to him, but also to grow closer to each other. My eyes have been opened lately and I've realized how far we've wandered away from each other...just slowly, over a period of time...until we got to a point where our relationship was too much like a "business" and not focused on love and respect as much as it should be. We want to put God first in our lives, and ask him to help us do the work that needs to be done to totally reunite us and make us as happy as we both deserve to be, and also the best possible role models we can be.
Lastly, we want to completely open ourselves up to do what needs to be done to have financial security and peace. It may not be easy, and I know we may not get the answers I want, but clearly we haven't done well when left to our own devices, so it's obviously time to let God steer that ship for a minute. It seems like right now, every time there is an "up" there is an equal or greater "down". But I know that if we have our eyes, hearts and ears open he will guide us to do what needs to be done, and with a huge leap of faith and a lot of hard work, we will get to where we need to be.
So forgive me for not blogging as much as I could be or for not commenting on other blogs like I'd like too. Right now I'm going through a period of change and it's exciting but exhausting, so bear (bare?..holy cow I'm tired) with me. I'm trying to spend my "free time" reading, journaling, etc so that I can do the work on myself that needs to be done. I know you all understand!
I love you all. Off to do my jornal and GO TO BED!!! It's been another (too) fast weekend and I know I'm going to be exhausted in the morning!
Who keeps stealing my time?
Seriously??!! I thought I had only missed one night of blogging. Clearly I was wrong.
I thought I had only missed 2 days of doing my prayer journal, yet before last night, the most recent date was April 28th. Someone must have ripped some pages out, because that just doens't seem possible.
And how is it possible that Stacey is leaving in just days?! There's no way she's been here 2 years. We were able to get together yesterday up in Dayton and again today for dinner. I was too sad to even cry when I hugged her good bye. The biggest part of me is still in denial that she's leaving, as I have been since the day she told me. If I don't believe it, it won't really happen.
Stacey, thank you so much. You have touched my heart and forever changed my life. I know our friendship will endure and continue to grow through phone calls. I just hate that Myles and Eli won't see each other very often anymore, and that Chase and Gina won't be able to hold hands (unless we can come up with a plot now to get them married when they grow up) lol.
I love you Stacey. Thank you for blessing me and teaching me so much. I hope time continues to pass quickly until we are able to get together again soon.
I thought I had only missed 2 days of doing my prayer journal, yet before last night, the most recent date was April 28th. Someone must have ripped some pages out, because that just doens't seem possible.
And how is it possible that Stacey is leaving in just days?! There's no way she's been here 2 years. We were able to get together yesterday up in Dayton and again today for dinner. I was too sad to even cry when I hugged her good bye. The biggest part of me is still in denial that she's leaving, as I have been since the day she told me. If I don't believe it, it won't really happen.
Stacey, thank you so much. You have touched my heart and forever changed my life. I know our friendship will endure and continue to grow through phone calls. I just hate that Myles and Eli won't see each other very often anymore, and that Chase and Gina won't be able to hold hands (unless we can come up with a plot now to get them married when they grow up) lol.
I love you Stacey. Thank you for blessing me and teaching me so much. I hope time continues to pass quickly until we are able to get together again soon.
Friday, May 2, 2008
A long week
I'm glad this is Friday and the work week is over. It's been a long and emotional week, and I'm looking forward to getting the kids to sleep early so I can too!
We're thinking of going to see Stacey in Dayton this Sunday, and then hopefully meeting her and her family for dinner Monday night. She now has less than 2 weeks left before she moves, so we're trying to get in as many visits as possible. I'm really going to miss her, but I also know we'll be in regular contact!
Hope all of you had a good day! Take care.
We're thinking of going to see Stacey in Dayton this Sunday, and then hopefully meeting her and her family for dinner Monday night. She now has less than 2 weeks left before she moves, so we're trying to get in as many visits as possible. I'm really going to miss her, but I also know we'll be in regular contact!
Hope all of you had a good day! Take care.
Thursday, May 1, 2008
More of life's lessons
1. I have learned that although my tendancy when things go wrong is to become filled with anxiety, stress and fear, those emotions only serve to make you miserable and keep you deep in a pit. They zap the energy you need to actually think clearly and work *through* the situation! I am actually learning to be able to control the feelings I have, which is huge.
2. I have learned that through faith and hard work you really can change your situation.
3. I have learned that when you reach out to those who love you, even when it's hard and your pride makes it difficult, your community really will support you and lift you up. God wants us to choose our friends wisely so that we have a network of people around us that are able to give us strength and support.
4. I have learned that I love contemporary christian music and now listen to it in my car all the time!
5. I have learned that when you are feeling the most down, depressed, sad, tired, etc and don't feel like you are able to pray, that is when you need to pray the most.
6. I have learned that if you have faith and ask God to take the burden you are carrying from you, that he really will. If you just let him. You have to be willing to actually let it go and trust that he'll take care of you.
7. I have learned that I had a void in my life I didn't even know existed until I began filling it with the only thing that CAN fill it...God.
And on a more personal, funny level:
8. I have learned that even though a 4 year old boy looks like he's totally into his cartoon, he still hears...and understands...every word you and your husband are saying.
9. I have learned that an 18 month old girl is already very capable of charming her way out of trouble with a look and a kiss.
10. I have learned I love my family more every day.
2. I have learned that through faith and hard work you really can change your situation.
3. I have learned that when you reach out to those who love you, even when it's hard and your pride makes it difficult, your community really will support you and lift you up. God wants us to choose our friends wisely so that we have a network of people around us that are able to give us strength and support.
4. I have learned that I love contemporary christian music and now listen to it in my car all the time!
5. I have learned that when you are feeling the most down, depressed, sad, tired, etc and don't feel like you are able to pray, that is when you need to pray the most.
6. I have learned that if you have faith and ask God to take the burden you are carrying from you, that he really will. If you just let him. You have to be willing to actually let it go and trust that he'll take care of you.
7. I have learned that I had a void in my life I didn't even know existed until I began filling it with the only thing that CAN fill it...God.
And on a more personal, funny level:
8. I have learned that even though a 4 year old boy looks like he's totally into his cartoon, he still hears...and understands...every word you and your husband are saying.
9. I have learned that an 18 month old girl is already very capable of charming her way out of trouble with a look and a kiss.
10. I have learned I love my family more every day.
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