Money that is.
Today we needed to get four new tires on the Acura, along with a headlight, tail light, alignment and oil change. We had put it off as long as possible, and it just wasn't safe anymore. Goodness gracious. It's amazing how you can spend so much in just a few minutes!!!
And I'm becoming real farmiliar with what a condensor is. Something I didn't know about just a few weeks ago. It's what is wrong with our home A/C and what they think is wrong with the Acura's A/C. They (Sears) tried to charge it twice and it just wouldn't work. But they can't do that fix there, so we need to bring it somewhere else. I am definitely learning patience though...something that I was not blessed with having much of. Patience and an adaptation for dealing wtih the heat. lol
Tomorrow we really need to go to church. We didn't go the past three weeks because of different conflicts and I'm missing it.
Gina learned a new word tonight. I told her it was time to go night night and she said it back to me. "night night". It was really sweet. She melts my heart.
Today is one of those days that I feel like I was busy all day, but didn't really accomplish anything. I have yet to get a shower even. It's just been a long day.
I am off to get cleaned up and relax!!!!
Hope you are all having a good night!!
Ally
Saturday, June 21, 2008
Friday, June 20, 2008
10 years and our wildlife adventures.
Wow. 10 years. It's hard to believe that ten years ago today Derrick and I were married. It doesn't seem possible. 10 years and 2 beautiful children later, here we are.
We haven't done anything "official" to celebrate yet, but plan on going out next weekend for a nice dinner alone, and when mom comes in town in mid-July, we plan on doing a combo anniversary/birthday celebration and spending the night away while G-ma watches the kids. It'll be our first ever night away!
On a completely different note, we had quite the "incident" tonight. We recently confirmed the fact that some racoons have decided to make our home their home. I was going to go out to the car last night to get something out of it and saw a furry little critter by our gutter. I swear he waved to me. I'm so glad I was inside and saw him through the door. I stood there staring at him in a state of scared shock.
Today, about 6:00, I opened the front door to go out with the kids and there, right on our porch, right by the front door was another one. Myles now has a funny story to tell about his mommy literally screaming and then yelling at him to shut the door and get in the house. He got quite a kick out of that and has re-enacted it several times. I now know where Gina got her "squeal" from. And aren't these stupid things NOCTURNAL animals?? Last time I checked 6 pm during daylight savings time does NOT qualify. I'm telling you, it's messing with me.
Meanwhile, I about fainted in the folyer. Everyone says they are more scared of me than I am of it, but I believe that would be impossible. And I don't care what anyone says, that thing was NOT scared of us. It just stood there, probably saying "whatcha gonna do about it"? That's when a hunting dog comes in handy. I will no longer go anywhere without Max. Raccoons may not be scared of me, but they ARE scared of him. If anyone ever finds me passed out somewhere around the house, you can be pretty sure I saw a raccoon. I'm not so sure that thing wouldn't chase me down the block even if I took off running. More scared of me than I am of it. I don't think so.
I swear I can't get out of this house fast enough. I have not yet figured out how to have Max help me INTO the house when I'm coming home from somewhere. I'll have to give that one some thought. For now, I'm just grateful that I haven't carried out my plans of downsizing the number of pets we have as I've often threatened. But I will say, that if one of those things ever comes out and fights with him (and they might...they're probably just lifting weights during the day to build up their strength) the dog is on his own. I'll do what I can do from the safety and secruity the INSIDE of the house provides. However, if one ever finds it's way into the house I will surely die of fear, and it'll make for quite the interesting obituary.
I now feel like I need to go wash my hands or take a shower or something. Does anyone else feel like they are being watched??? *shudder*
We haven't done anything "official" to celebrate yet, but plan on going out next weekend for a nice dinner alone, and when mom comes in town in mid-July, we plan on doing a combo anniversary/birthday celebration and spending the night away while G-ma watches the kids. It'll be our first ever night away!
On a completely different note, we had quite the "incident" tonight. We recently confirmed the fact that some racoons have decided to make our home their home. I was going to go out to the car last night to get something out of it and saw a furry little critter by our gutter. I swear he waved to me. I'm so glad I was inside and saw him through the door. I stood there staring at him in a state of scared shock.
Today, about 6:00, I opened the front door to go out with the kids and there, right on our porch, right by the front door was another one. Myles now has a funny story to tell about his mommy literally screaming and then yelling at him to shut the door and get in the house. He got quite a kick out of that and has re-enacted it several times. I now know where Gina got her "squeal" from. And aren't these stupid things NOCTURNAL animals?? Last time I checked 6 pm during daylight savings time does NOT qualify. I'm telling you, it's messing with me.
Meanwhile, I about fainted in the folyer. Everyone says they are more scared of me than I am of it, but I believe that would be impossible. And I don't care what anyone says, that thing was NOT scared of us. It just stood there, probably saying "whatcha gonna do about it"? That's when a hunting dog comes in handy. I will no longer go anywhere without Max. Raccoons may not be scared of me, but they ARE scared of him. If anyone ever finds me passed out somewhere around the house, you can be pretty sure I saw a raccoon. I'm not so sure that thing wouldn't chase me down the block even if I took off running. More scared of me than I am of it. I don't think so.
I swear I can't get out of this house fast enough. I have not yet figured out how to have Max help me INTO the house when I'm coming home from somewhere. I'll have to give that one some thought. For now, I'm just grateful that I haven't carried out my plans of downsizing the number of pets we have as I've often threatened. But I will say, that if one of those things ever comes out and fights with him (and they might...they're probably just lifting weights during the day to build up their strength) the dog is on his own. I'll do what I can do from the safety and secruity the INSIDE of the house provides. However, if one ever finds it's way into the house I will surely die of fear, and it'll make for quite the interesting obituary.
I now feel like I need to go wash my hands or take a shower or something. Does anyone else feel like they are being watched??? *shudder*
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
A beautiful day!!!
We had a great day here today weather wise! It was just perfect!
The day was a little frustrating overall--their was some kind of mix up with the A/C man and he left before Derrick could get the dogs put away and answer the door. The real estate agent didn't show up for his 6:00 appt., and I just got the answering machine when I called. Graeater's is now asking Derrick to "wait 30 days" as they were "premature in interviewing for the position" (since it doesn't exist yet...ya think??!!), but still say "he's the one". It just felt soo close.
BUT....I'm trying to put the princpal's I'm reading about in our book club books to good use.
1. Being happy is a DECISION. You have to choose to be happy and know that things will work out for the greater good even when things seem to be going poorly.
2. Things will work out, but it'll be in GOD'S TIME, not mine. Until then, I need to be willing to turn it over to him and let it go.
So, today it really hit me that our 10th!!!! Anniversary is this Friday. We have no plans. We are such slackers and procrastinators. We would like to get away for a night when mom comes in town in July, but we'd still like to do something now. We really need to get serious and figure out what we're gonna do. We should at least see if Cindy can watch the kids that night and plan something to do that evening.
And mom, I have a surprise for your birthday, and it's killing me not to tell you about it. I'm no good with surprises. Although I found out today I'm not going to have it by the 28th, but I think it'll be worth the wait!!
Well, it's cool and very comfortable in the house, both kids are sleeping, and I'm ready to take full advantage of it.
Hope you all have a good night!
The day was a little frustrating overall--their was some kind of mix up with the A/C man and he left before Derrick could get the dogs put away and answer the door. The real estate agent didn't show up for his 6:00 appt., and I just got the answering machine when I called. Graeater's is now asking Derrick to "wait 30 days" as they were "premature in interviewing for the position" (since it doesn't exist yet...ya think??!!), but still say "he's the one". It just felt soo close.
BUT....I'm trying to put the princpal's I'm reading about in our book club books to good use.
1. Being happy is a DECISION. You have to choose to be happy and know that things will work out for the greater good even when things seem to be going poorly.
2. Things will work out, but it'll be in GOD'S TIME, not mine. Until then, I need to be willing to turn it over to him and let it go.
So, today it really hit me that our 10th!!!! Anniversary is this Friday. We have no plans. We are such slackers and procrastinators. We would like to get away for a night when mom comes in town in July, but we'd still like to do something now. We really need to get serious and figure out what we're gonna do. We should at least see if Cindy can watch the kids that night and plan something to do that evening.
And mom, I have a surprise for your birthday, and it's killing me not to tell you about it. I'm no good with surprises. Although I found out today I'm not going to have it by the 28th, but I think it'll be worth the wait!!
Well, it's cool and very comfortable in the house, both kids are sleeping, and I'm ready to take full advantage of it.
Hope you all have a good night!
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Counting our blessings!
Derrick did go to St. Louis this weekend. His mom was released from the hospital yesterday, thank God. I have no doubt all the prayers she was receiving helped!
Although it was not a good reason for the get together, it was a great for him to be able to get together with his family and friends.
He checked in with me this morning and told me he'd probably be staying one more night and coming home tomorrow. I tried to be very understanding and supportive, but was disappointed (and tired...HOW do single moms do it??). So imagine my surprise when he walked in around noon! He left very early this morning to come back home. Sorry Greg...he told me you all were still sleeping when he left...he had a great time with you!
His brothers challenged him to a game of basketball, but Derrick wasn't prepared..didn't have gym shoes. So, in true boy ultra competitive form, Greg bought him a pair of shoes. Now Myles is dying for a pair that look just like them. I was down stairs doing laundry when I heard Myles scream DAAAAAAAADDDDDYYYYYYYY!!!! It was really cute.
The kids and I went to the pool this afternoon and had a great time. Myles is so much more brave than he was last year and even hung out in the big pool! Gina also brought out the dare devil side of her and started jumping off the side to me.
Now we're back home and are making a red velvet cake for Father's Day. Although we had to warn him that this one will be VERY light icing. Woops. lol
The guy that was working on our air conditioner called me today and said he could come out tomorrow to put that used unit in for us. Yay!!! And, on top of that, after tomorrow the rest of the week is supposed to be in the 70's!!
There's just something about swimming that makes us all tired. Gina is taking a nap and we're just all relaxing having cooled off and waiting for the cake to finish!! Yum.
Although it was not a good reason for the get together, it was a great for him to be able to get together with his family and friends.
He checked in with me this morning and told me he'd probably be staying one more night and coming home tomorrow. I tried to be very understanding and supportive, but was disappointed (and tired...HOW do single moms do it??). So imagine my surprise when he walked in around noon! He left very early this morning to come back home. Sorry Greg...he told me you all were still sleeping when he left...he had a great time with you!
His brothers challenged him to a game of basketball, but Derrick wasn't prepared..didn't have gym shoes. So, in true boy ultra competitive form, Greg bought him a pair of shoes. Now Myles is dying for a pair that look just like them. I was down stairs doing laundry when I heard Myles scream DAAAAAAAADDDDDYYYYYYYY!!!! It was really cute.
The kids and I went to the pool this afternoon and had a great time. Myles is so much more brave than he was last year and even hung out in the big pool! Gina also brought out the dare devil side of her and started jumping off the side to me.
Now we're back home and are making a red velvet cake for Father's Day. Although we had to warn him that this one will be VERY light icing. Woops. lol
The guy that was working on our air conditioner called me today and said he could come out tomorrow to put that used unit in for us. Yay!!! And, on top of that, after tomorrow the rest of the week is supposed to be in the 70's!!
There's just something about swimming that makes us all tired. Gina is taking a nap and we're just all relaxing having cooled off and waiting for the cake to finish!! Yum.
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Derrick's mom
For those of you that don't know, please keep her in your prayers tonight. She suffered a heart attack today.
For those of you that do know, your prayers are already working!!! God hears us!
Derrick was getting ready to get in the car and start driving, but as we've gotten more news from the family that's with her in St. Louis, he has decided to wait until morning. She had a 99% blockage in one of her arteries, but it sounds as though they have been able to open that and she is being transferred to a different hospital. His brother Will tells us they are even saying she may be released early next week!!! Praise God!
So at this point, he's considering waiting a week to go be with her when he can actually spend some quality time with her AT HOME when she may really be desiring company vs rushing to be with her tomorrow in the hospital. We'll see. He'll call Will in the morning to get an update on her at that point and then decide for sure what he needs to do.
So prayers for Annette for healing, and for her entire family for strength and peace.
Give your loved ones an extra squeeze tonight and make sure you know how much you love them. Times like this instantly make you think about all the things you should have done or said when you realize you may have missed your opportunity.
To all of those reading this, I LOVE YOU!!
Derrick and Ally
For those of you that do know, your prayers are already working!!! God hears us!
Derrick was getting ready to get in the car and start driving, but as we've gotten more news from the family that's with her in St. Louis, he has decided to wait until morning. She had a 99% blockage in one of her arteries, but it sounds as though they have been able to open that and she is being transferred to a different hospital. His brother Will tells us they are even saying she may be released early next week!!! Praise God!
So at this point, he's considering waiting a week to go be with her when he can actually spend some quality time with her AT HOME when she may really be desiring company vs rushing to be with her tomorrow in the hospital. We'll see. He'll call Will in the morning to get an update on her at that point and then decide for sure what he needs to do.
So prayers for Annette for healing, and for her entire family for strength and peace.
Give your loved ones an extra squeeze tonight and make sure you know how much you love them. Times like this instantly make you think about all the things you should have done or said when you realize you may have missed your opportunity.
To all of those reading this, I LOVE YOU!!
Derrick and Ally
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Sprinkler Fun
Tonight we came home and I turned on the sprinkler and let the kids run through it. Well, Myles ran through it, but Gina didn't seem to excited about the opportunity to run through ice cold water. What can I say? The girl may be young, but she isn't crazy. :) I'll post some pictures in the next few days.
But it has cooled off quite a bit here (down to the mid 80's) so it was nice to spend some time outside and just enjoy letting the kids be kids.
I stayed up too late last night as I just couldn't relax enough to go to sleep, and now I'm really tired. Gina is in her crib, and I think I'm going to do my best to get Myles down to sleep early tonight so I can have some time alone.
I'm craving some peace and quiet!!!
Hope you are all having a good night!
But it has cooled off quite a bit here (down to the mid 80's) so it was nice to spend some time outside and just enjoy letting the kids be kids.
I stayed up too late last night as I just couldn't relax enough to go to sleep, and now I'm really tired. Gina is in her crib, and I think I'm going to do my best to get Myles down to sleep early tonight so I can have some time alone.
I'm craving some peace and quiet!!!
Hope you are all having a good night!
Monday, June 9, 2008
Just a quick update...
As it's late and I'm tired...but hot.
Still no A/C. It's totally broken, and with the current state of things just not worth wfixing. Sooo....we're making due. Using fans, chilling in the basement, using the Y pool, etc. But it's definitely something that won't be taken for granted in the future.
We had the real estate agent come out today. So far it doesn't look like selling the house is going to be a feasible option. So....we're exploring other options. We just need to gather all the information we can from reliable sources and pray so that we make the best decisions we can.
Derrick had another interview with Graeter's today. It went really well, but also kind of odd. He's interivewing for a Regional Manager position and they love him....say he's The One. Only problem? The position doesn't actually exist yet. They are hiring a consulting firm to do a financial analysis and recommend how how the company should be restructured since it's been set up the same way since it first opened...and managers are reporting directly to the owners.
So, we'll see. Hopefully things will fall into place if it's meant to be. I'm not so sure why they have an internal recruiter looking to fill a position that doesn't exist, but who am I? At least they were really impressed with him. In the mean time he's still just following up on other leads and staying in touch with all of his contacts.
We looked at one townhouse community this weekend (Mallard Lakes) and really liked it, but are not ready to make a decision yet until some other things are resolved. In the mean time we'll just keep looking so we can get into the best place for us as soon as we're ready. Regardless I'm excited about the fresh start.
We went to the pool at the Y today and the kids had a blast. I wish I had my camera.
We came home and made dinner and then played outside. You know it's bad when it's probably about 15 degrees cooler outside than it is in your own house. lol I would have gone out earlier had I known that!!
When we came in Myles wanted to get a shower...and Gina joined him. It was hysterical. She's always standing up in the bathtub though, so it actually worked. She loved it. That was truly a Kodak moment.
Gina is now saying "woof woof" when you ask her what a dog says. It cracks me up, so I ask her constantly. It's just so funny the way she says it. She also calls Cindy "inny" and is putting two words together (mommy here, daddy up, etc). So it's fun to see her growing and learning.
Well, I'm in a room with no fan and I'm starting to drip onto the keyboard...that's a sign I need to go.
Hope you're all having a good night.
Talk to you soon.
Still no A/C. It's totally broken, and with the current state of things just not worth wfixing. Sooo....we're making due. Using fans, chilling in the basement, using the Y pool, etc. But it's definitely something that won't be taken for granted in the future.
We had the real estate agent come out today. So far it doesn't look like selling the house is going to be a feasible option. So....we're exploring other options. We just need to gather all the information we can from reliable sources and pray so that we make the best decisions we can.
Derrick had another interview with Graeter's today. It went really well, but also kind of odd. He's interivewing for a Regional Manager position and they love him....say he's The One. Only problem? The position doesn't actually exist yet. They are hiring a consulting firm to do a financial analysis and recommend how how the company should be restructured since it's been set up the same way since it first opened...and managers are reporting directly to the owners.
So, we'll see. Hopefully things will fall into place if it's meant to be. I'm not so sure why they have an internal recruiter looking to fill a position that doesn't exist, but who am I? At least they were really impressed with him. In the mean time he's still just following up on other leads and staying in touch with all of his contacts.
We looked at one townhouse community this weekend (Mallard Lakes) and really liked it, but are not ready to make a decision yet until some other things are resolved. In the mean time we'll just keep looking so we can get into the best place for us as soon as we're ready. Regardless I'm excited about the fresh start.
We went to the pool at the Y today and the kids had a blast. I wish I had my camera.
We came home and made dinner and then played outside. You know it's bad when it's probably about 15 degrees cooler outside than it is in your own house. lol I would have gone out earlier had I known that!!
When we came in Myles wanted to get a shower...and Gina joined him. It was hysterical. She's always standing up in the bathtub though, so it actually worked. She loved it. That was truly a Kodak moment.
Gina is now saying "woof woof" when you ask her what a dog says. It cracks me up, so I ask her constantly. It's just so funny the way she says it. She also calls Cindy "inny" and is putting two words together (mommy here, daddy up, etc). So it's fun to see her growing and learning.
Well, I'm in a room with no fan and I'm starting to drip onto the keyboard...that's a sign I need to go.
Hope you're all having a good night.
Talk to you soon.
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
Another test??
I thought I was out of school! Yet...somehow it seems like we keep getting the tests that are just a part of life thrown at us.
We had two people come out today to take a look at our air conditioner. Both think the unit needs to be replaced. Really?! Now?! When we're trying to get out of here? I really wish it had just waited a few more months!
We have one more person coming on Friday to take another look, and from talking to him on the phone, I have confidence in him and he feels like he'll be able to fix it.
I don't like to think of myself as being a "prissy" girl, but I sure am spoiled when it comes to A/C. It's funny how a convenience quickly becomes an expectation.
The good part is that some of the topics in WWG have been popping in my mind and helping to keep things in perspective. I know that we have just been working too hard to not have things fall into place. I just can't let this set back distract me. I know it will all work out the way it's supposed to.
Kim, it's a good thing you're in HH...had you been home today would have been a day I would have been calling for a "Kim talk". You have such a knack of putting things in perspective for me.
I finally got Myles to fall asleep early tonight. Boy did he need it. Do you know where he fell asleep? On top of the coffee table, complete with a blanket and pillow. Hey...whatever works.
We had our first donation pick up today and are scheduled for another one tomorrow. I just finished bringing up some more stuff from downstairs, and then got a shower to freshen up. I never realized how big the basement is. :) Every bit we do motivates me to do even more as it keeps coming together.
Now we just need a collective prayer and the whole group to cross their fingers that the house can sell quickly and without major issues. I have to admit, I'm proud of myself for facing my fears head on. I've always had SO much anxiety about selling the house...not really related to leaving it, just all the work it would take to get it ready, have open houses and showings, etc. But I'm doing it! I know it will all pay off. I just have to stay positive.
We had two people come out today to take a look at our air conditioner. Both think the unit needs to be replaced. Really?! Now?! When we're trying to get out of here? I really wish it had just waited a few more months!
We have one more person coming on Friday to take another look, and from talking to him on the phone, I have confidence in him and he feels like he'll be able to fix it.
I don't like to think of myself as being a "prissy" girl, but I sure am spoiled when it comes to A/C. It's funny how a convenience quickly becomes an expectation.
The good part is that some of the topics in WWG have been popping in my mind and helping to keep things in perspective. I know that we have just been working too hard to not have things fall into place. I just can't let this set back distract me. I know it will all work out the way it's supposed to.
Kim, it's a good thing you're in HH...had you been home today would have been a day I would have been calling for a "Kim talk". You have such a knack of putting things in perspective for me.
I finally got Myles to fall asleep early tonight. Boy did he need it. Do you know where he fell asleep? On top of the coffee table, complete with a blanket and pillow. Hey...whatever works.
We had our first donation pick up today and are scheduled for another one tomorrow. I just finished bringing up some more stuff from downstairs, and then got a shower to freshen up. I never realized how big the basement is. :) Every bit we do motivates me to do even more as it keeps coming together.
Now we just need a collective prayer and the whole group to cross their fingers that the house can sell quickly and without major issues. I have to admit, I'm proud of myself for facing my fears head on. I've always had SO much anxiety about selling the house...not really related to leaving it, just all the work it would take to get it ready, have open houses and showings, etc. But I'm doing it! I know it will all pay off. I just have to stay positive.
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Hey everyone!
It's funny how it sometimes seems like there is nothing going on, yet so much at the same time. Do you know what I mean? Maybe it's because what's "going on" isn't particulary fun or exciting, but it just keeps us busy.
We have 2 donation picks ups scheduled for the next two days. I'm looking forward to getting our garage back.
We have a real estate agent coming by this Monday. Kim, we called Larry Bebe and mentioned I got his name from you all. He was really nice and remembered you well. (I guess a bazillion moves will do that to a person) lol So, I'm looking forward to meeting with him and hearing what he has to say and getting this process started.
Greg, if it doesn't sell soon, we may be out for an extended visit in Arizona. :)
It's funny how the house looks so different with a few minor changes, and how clean it is now. It's a little sad to be leaving...heck, this is the only HOUSE I've ever lived in...but I know it's time. The biggest decisions in life aren't always the easiest to make, but having faith in God and knowing he'll lead us down the right path if we just listen for him helps.
Things seem to be slowing down a little for Derrick on the job hunt. He's still had sesveral interviews, but it just doens't seem like he's getting as many calls these days as he was at one point. So, we're trying to regroup and refocus.
Kim-I'm not perfect about my quiet time, but I have been doing a pretty darn good job. The weekends is when I tend to slack. During the week it's much easier for me to focus. Although I really need to get serious about WWG if I'm going to finish it. I really like it, and the story about his dog passing literally had me crying...are you to that point yet? I had to put it down and come back. The part when God said "He won't give me the ball". Please. Sob City.
Myles is having a really rough night tonight. He hasn't been this way in quite a while. I think it's because he went to bed last night. Ocassionally he just has nights where he just can't get to sleep...and we all pay for it the next day. So today he has no patience and everything is making him angry. But, I have little Gina in bed, so I'm going to go spend a little one-on-one time with him before I force his little self to fall asleep.
Hope you all have a good night.
Oh..and mom...the A/C people are coming tomorrow as well, so we'll finally cool down. :)
We have 2 donation picks ups scheduled for the next two days. I'm looking forward to getting our garage back.
We have a real estate agent coming by this Monday. Kim, we called Larry Bebe and mentioned I got his name from you all. He was really nice and remembered you well. (I guess a bazillion moves will do that to a person) lol So, I'm looking forward to meeting with him and hearing what he has to say and getting this process started.
Greg, if it doesn't sell soon, we may be out for an extended visit in Arizona. :)
It's funny how the house looks so different with a few minor changes, and how clean it is now. It's a little sad to be leaving...heck, this is the only HOUSE I've ever lived in...but I know it's time. The biggest decisions in life aren't always the easiest to make, but having faith in God and knowing he'll lead us down the right path if we just listen for him helps.
Things seem to be slowing down a little for Derrick on the job hunt. He's still had sesveral interviews, but it just doens't seem like he's getting as many calls these days as he was at one point. So, we're trying to regroup and refocus.
Kim-I'm not perfect about my quiet time, but I have been doing a pretty darn good job. The weekends is when I tend to slack. During the week it's much easier for me to focus. Although I really need to get serious about WWG if I'm going to finish it. I really like it, and the story about his dog passing literally had me crying...are you to that point yet? I had to put it down and come back. The part when God said "He won't give me the ball". Please. Sob City.
Myles is having a really rough night tonight. He hasn't been this way in quite a while. I think it's because he went to bed last night. Ocassionally he just has nights where he just can't get to sleep...and we all pay for it the next day. So today he has no patience and everything is making him angry. But, I have little Gina in bed, so I'm going to go spend a little one-on-one time with him before I force his little self to fall asleep.
Hope you all have a good night.
Oh..and mom...the A/C people are coming tomorrow as well, so we'll finally cool down. :)
Monday, June 2, 2008
Whew, what a week
Well, we've got a lot done this week. We have two donation pick up's scheduled for later in the week to start picking up the baby clothes, toys, old furniture, etc. We've gotten rid of lots of trash, and we're really making progress. I've gone through all of our closets and the kitchen cabinets. This is definitely some serious spring cleaning!!!
I spent most of my evenings last week carrying things up from the basement and out to the garage, hence my absence. I'm glad that phase of it is over.
Derrick and I tried to carry up an old desk from the basement last night and about killed ourselves in the process. In hind sight, it was probably good material for America's Funniest Home videos, but at the time, I thought for sure one of us was gonna be laying on the ground being crushed by a heavy desk!! And the sad part is, we didn't even accomplish our mission. There was no way I was gonna be able to lift that thing all the way up.
Today we're both sore and bruised up from that little fiasco along with all the other work we've been doing.
Today was our meeting downtown with the IRS. I've definitely had more fun, less stressful afternoons, but all in all it went okay. At least the girl was nice and now we have it mainly behind us.
Although, true to form in "if we didn't have bad luck we'd have no luck at all" category, now our air conditioner isn't working at the house or in Derrick's car and Derrick has a flat tire. It really does shock me how much stuff gets thrown at us sometimes. Maybe I'm just feeling sorry for myself. I mean, I know everyone has "their stuff", but it really does seem like we get more than our fair share sometimes...or at least in too short of a time frame.
One of our neighbors brought down a couple of his grandson's old toys for Myles today and he is SO HAPPY. He is in love with his Little Tykes Couzy Coupe that looks like a police car. He's convinced he's a police man now! It was really cute until he refused to go to bed because he didn't want to stop playing with it.
Gina is doing well too. She's saying a few more words. Tonight she even put two words together: "Mommy, here". Although yesterday she was playing with Myles' toy computer and said "heya" (here) as she proceeded to bust my lip with it. I literally started crying. Man, that hurts. The inside of my lip is cut and it's swollen. Had she got my nose I know she would have broken it. Tonight she climbed up into my recliner, looked at me with that little coniving grin and said "mine". It's a good thing she's cute. Little rascal. She's so similar yet so different from Myles. She is a blanket cuddling, doll snuggling ,hand holding, loves to kiss girl that could make a grown man cry with her pouty lip "look through the eyelashes" look she gives you when she's upset. She is small but mighty and either doesn't know or doesn't care that she is the smallest and youngest child the sitter watches. If you were to ask her I'm sure she thinks she's in charge. Today when I went to pick her up she wanted to get down outside. Apparently she wanted to sit on the step and relax for a few minutes. She very slowly, and very cautiously started walking backwards with her butt sticking out, ready to sit. Instead of just turning around and looking, she'd try to sit, realize she was too far away and take a couple more slow steps backwards until her little booty hit the porch step. Then she sat down, clapped her hands and smiled. All was right in her world, and she gave Cindy and I quite a laugh. It must be in the genes to do everything the hard way. :)
I spent most of my evenings last week carrying things up from the basement and out to the garage, hence my absence. I'm glad that phase of it is over.
Derrick and I tried to carry up an old desk from the basement last night and about killed ourselves in the process. In hind sight, it was probably good material for America's Funniest Home videos, but at the time, I thought for sure one of us was gonna be laying on the ground being crushed by a heavy desk!! And the sad part is, we didn't even accomplish our mission. There was no way I was gonna be able to lift that thing all the way up.
Today we're both sore and bruised up from that little fiasco along with all the other work we've been doing.
Today was our meeting downtown with the IRS. I've definitely had more fun, less stressful afternoons, but all in all it went okay. At least the girl was nice and now we have it mainly behind us.
Although, true to form in "if we didn't have bad luck we'd have no luck at all" category, now our air conditioner isn't working at the house or in Derrick's car and Derrick has a flat tire. It really does shock me how much stuff gets thrown at us sometimes. Maybe I'm just feeling sorry for myself. I mean, I know everyone has "their stuff", but it really does seem like we get more than our fair share sometimes...or at least in too short of a time frame.
One of our neighbors brought down a couple of his grandson's old toys for Myles today and he is SO HAPPY. He is in love with his Little Tykes Couzy Coupe that looks like a police car. He's convinced he's a police man now! It was really cute until he refused to go to bed because he didn't want to stop playing with it.
Gina is doing well too. She's saying a few more words. Tonight she even put two words together: "Mommy, here". Although yesterday she was playing with Myles' toy computer and said "heya" (here) as she proceeded to bust my lip with it. I literally started crying. Man, that hurts. The inside of my lip is cut and it's swollen. Had she got my nose I know she would have broken it. Tonight she climbed up into my recliner, looked at me with that little coniving grin and said "mine". It's a good thing she's cute. Little rascal. She's so similar yet so different from Myles. She is a blanket cuddling, doll snuggling ,hand holding, loves to kiss girl that could make a grown man cry with her pouty lip "look through the eyelashes" look she gives you when she's upset. She is small but mighty and either doesn't know or doesn't care that she is the smallest and youngest child the sitter watches. If you were to ask her I'm sure she thinks she's in charge. Today when I went to pick her up she wanted to get down outside. Apparently she wanted to sit on the step and relax for a few minutes. She very slowly, and very cautiously started walking backwards with her butt sticking out, ready to sit. Instead of just turning around and looking, she'd try to sit, realize she was too far away and take a couple more slow steps backwards until her little booty hit the porch step. Then she sat down, clapped her hands and smiled. All was right in her world, and she gave Cindy and I quite a laugh. It must be in the genes to do everything the hard way. :)
Sunday, May 25, 2008
I sure am tired
considering I haven't really done anything. Don't you hate days like that when you're just exhausted for no good reason?
It's another beautiful day here today. We went to church and the kids both had a good time. Gina even walked right into her class to play with the other little girls, and Myles went to his room without even so much as a good bye. That is really a good feeling.
We then went and had a nutritious lunch at McDonalds. lol Myles and I went to Target to return yet another radio that I couldn't get to play K-Love at work. I just got diapers and wipes instead. Can't go wrong with those. Although I'm not so sure why I spend my Mother's Day present on stuff for the kids (besides a pedometer and some new make up I tried).
I was hoping we'd get more cleaning accomplished this weekend than what we have, but I'm having a hard time getting motivated. We really wanted to get a bunch of stuff cleaned up from the basement before the trash man picks up tomorrow, but we'll see. At the beginning of the week I need to call someone to come pick some of the toys and clothes up, but I guess first we have to get it all upstairs and out to the garage. That should be fun.
Derrick has a big interview on Tuesday that would be a great opportunity, so please keep your fingers and toes crossed and keep us in your prayers. We're really hoping June is the month for us.
Well, I hear Myles outside talking to the girls that live behind us that I don't like, and they are inviting themselves into our house. Gina is crying because I won't let her outside with out me, so I better run.
Hope you're all having a good day! God Bless.
It's another beautiful day here today. We went to church and the kids both had a good time. Gina even walked right into her class to play with the other little girls, and Myles went to his room without even so much as a good bye. That is really a good feeling.
We then went and had a nutritious lunch at McDonalds. lol Myles and I went to Target to return yet another radio that I couldn't get to play K-Love at work. I just got diapers and wipes instead. Can't go wrong with those. Although I'm not so sure why I spend my Mother's Day present on stuff for the kids (besides a pedometer and some new make up I tried).
I was hoping we'd get more cleaning accomplished this weekend than what we have, but I'm having a hard time getting motivated. We really wanted to get a bunch of stuff cleaned up from the basement before the trash man picks up tomorrow, but we'll see. At the beginning of the week I need to call someone to come pick some of the toys and clothes up, but I guess first we have to get it all upstairs and out to the garage. That should be fun.
Derrick has a big interview on Tuesday that would be a great opportunity, so please keep your fingers and toes crossed and keep us in your prayers. We're really hoping June is the month for us.
Well, I hear Myles outside talking to the girls that live behind us that I don't like, and they are inviting themselves into our house. Gina is crying because I won't let her outside with out me, so I better run.
Hope you're all having a good day! God Bless.
Saturday, May 24, 2008
What a beautiful day!
It was such a pretty day here today! I can't believe how cool it still is considering this is Memorial Day Weekend, but I'm not complaining. I'm sure our electric bill will reflect the fact we haven't needed air yet, which is nice!
Myles and I met his teacher, Mrs. Stewart, at school briefly today to get his back pack back. When we went to his party for his last day of school I totally forgot about it. She was sweet enough to call and meet me at the school to return it. I'm so glad I did that too, because there were some really cute things in there that represented his first year of preschool. We have already started a memory box for this first year of school to keep some of the craft projects that he's done, and now we can add his Preschool Diploma, a book that represents each of the shapes they studied every month, and a book of self-portraits Myles drew each month. It's so cute.
Derrick and Myles then went to Harbon Park to play soccer. Myles is SUCH a daddy's boy right now, wanting to go everywhere he goes and do everything he does. It's sweet to watch. It's nice that Derrick is home on the weekends to spend so much time with us now, especially because with our opposite schedules we barely see him through out the week.
Overall it's been a really good day, but not nearly as productive as I had planned. We wanted to work on getting the basement cleaned out and start getting some stuff thrown out/donated, and we haven't even touched it. Oh well. Guess I shouldn't focus on that too much since it's supposed to be a fun, holiday weekend.
Right now both of the kids are asleep and Derrick is out working in the yard. I'm trying to enjoy some quiet time alone, but I'm feeling sick to my stomach. I think I've had way too many sweets today. Ugh. So anyway, I'm off to relax for a little while. Hope you all had a good Saturday!
Myles and I met his teacher, Mrs. Stewart, at school briefly today to get his back pack back. When we went to his party for his last day of school I totally forgot about it. She was sweet enough to call and meet me at the school to return it. I'm so glad I did that too, because there were some really cute things in there that represented his first year of preschool. We have already started a memory box for this first year of school to keep some of the craft projects that he's done, and now we can add his Preschool Diploma, a book that represents each of the shapes they studied every month, and a book of self-portraits Myles drew each month. It's so cute.
Derrick and Myles then went to Harbon Park to play soccer. Myles is SUCH a daddy's boy right now, wanting to go everywhere he goes and do everything he does. It's sweet to watch. It's nice that Derrick is home on the weekends to spend so much time with us now, especially because with our opposite schedules we barely see him through out the week.
Overall it's been a really good day, but not nearly as productive as I had planned. We wanted to work on getting the basement cleaned out and start getting some stuff thrown out/donated, and we haven't even touched it. Oh well. Guess I shouldn't focus on that too much since it's supposed to be a fun, holiday weekend.
Right now both of the kids are asleep and Derrick is out working in the yard. I'm trying to enjoy some quiet time alone, but I'm feeling sick to my stomach. I think I've had way too many sweets today. Ugh. So anyway, I'm off to relax for a little while. Hope you all had a good Saturday!
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Some pictures
These are from the trip we took to the Air Force museum before Stacey left, and include her two boys, Eli and Chase, and also a few from Myles' last day of preschool. More on that in another post. I should add that Myles took the pictures of Chase, Gina, Eli and the super duper close up of himself. lol
By the way, in the picture of Myles with his school friends, check out the girl sitting next to him. That cracks me up!
By the way, in the picture of Myles with his school friends, check out the girl sitting next to him. That cracks me up!
Monday, May 19, 2008
Monday, Monday.
I've had a good day so far. I went into work this morning for a few hours, and I actually kind of enjoy doing the half day. I'm able to get out of there and still enjoy my day, plus it gets me up and showered and all that good stuff.
Gina had an appt today with her therapy people and the boys stayed home with her for that. They made a list of words she says and just want us to add on to it over the next couple of weeks as we hear new things. I'm not so sure she's actually saying all the words they wrote down, but maybe I'm not giving her enough credit.
Derrick said they were letting her play with play do, but kept handing her a plastic fork to poke holes in it, and she kept trying to eat the play do with the fork. I agree that'd be a little confusing since she's just learning to use utensils right now. He said it was a good appt though and the next time a speech therapist will come out to evaluate where she is and provide any support. Really I think she's totally fine, but just feel safer having them come periodically to keep track of everything.
Derrick didn't have any interviews today, so we actually got to spend a couple of hours together before he went to work, which was nice.
We did go to the new church again this weekend, Fairfield Church of Christ. I think we both liked it a little better this time. Both of the kids seemed happy and comfortable there. Gina went in the room without even crying...just a little pouty lip. But when we picked her up she was sitting at the picnic table having a pretend tea party just as happy as could be.
Myles went right up to his room, told them his name, and went on it. The guy even picked him up gave him a high 5, and Myles spoke to him. You all know how unusual that can be for my shy, akward Myles.
We ran into a couple of people we know as well, which was nice. One was our neighbor, and the other was one of my previous back up babysitters that watched Myles for about 3 weeks at one time. It was great to see her and her kids again and for her to see Myles and Gina. Gina is the age Myles was when she watched him!!
Our situation right now is certainly not ideal, but there are some upsides to it. I really think God put us in a situation where we'd have to strongly re-evaluate a lot of things, and that's what we're doing. It's nice to have my quiet alone time at night to do my devotionals and journaling, and the time together on the weekends is such a blessing. Myles has really enjoyed having Derrick here more, and I do too since it means I can sleep a little later and usually get breakfast cooked.
Hopefully he'll end up with a new job soon that allows us to have similar benefits.
Talk to you all soon!
Gina had an appt today with her therapy people and the boys stayed home with her for that. They made a list of words she says and just want us to add on to it over the next couple of weeks as we hear new things. I'm not so sure she's actually saying all the words they wrote down, but maybe I'm not giving her enough credit.
Derrick said they were letting her play with play do, but kept handing her a plastic fork to poke holes in it, and she kept trying to eat the play do with the fork. I agree that'd be a little confusing since she's just learning to use utensils right now. He said it was a good appt though and the next time a speech therapist will come out to evaluate where she is and provide any support. Really I think she's totally fine, but just feel safer having them come periodically to keep track of everything.
Derrick didn't have any interviews today, so we actually got to spend a couple of hours together before he went to work, which was nice.
We did go to the new church again this weekend, Fairfield Church of Christ. I think we both liked it a little better this time. Both of the kids seemed happy and comfortable there. Gina went in the room without even crying...just a little pouty lip. But when we picked her up she was sitting at the picnic table having a pretend tea party just as happy as could be.
Myles went right up to his room, told them his name, and went on it. The guy even picked him up gave him a high 5, and Myles spoke to him. You all know how unusual that can be for my shy, akward Myles.
We ran into a couple of people we know as well, which was nice. One was our neighbor, and the other was one of my previous back up babysitters that watched Myles for about 3 weeks at one time. It was great to see her and her kids again and for her to see Myles and Gina. Gina is the age Myles was when she watched him!!
Our situation right now is certainly not ideal, but there are some upsides to it. I really think God put us in a situation where we'd have to strongly re-evaluate a lot of things, and that's what we're doing. It's nice to have my quiet alone time at night to do my devotionals and journaling, and the time together on the weekends is such a blessing. Myles has really enjoyed having Derrick here more, and I do too since it means I can sleep a little later and usually get breakfast cooked.
Hopefully he'll end up with a new job soon that allows us to have similar benefits.
Talk to you all soon!
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Another week flies by!
I can't believe it's Thursday already! With Derrick working second shift, my days are just flying by. It's a little strange to be alone with the kids all evening and going to bed in an empty house! In the beginning, I have to admit it was slightly nice, probably because it was new, QUIET, and I looked at it as alone time.
The newness is wearing off though. Although, I guess I should be careful what I say, as the hours have worked out so well for Derrick to do his main job hunt since he has almost all day. He only has one more week to work second shift, and then he'll have to switch to first. Hopefully he'll still be able to get in enough hours, and have time for all the interviews/meetings.
I know these have been long days for both of us. I'm so proud of my husband and not only how hard he's working, but how positive he's staying while doing it. He's always been a night owl, and now that he's working until 1 am anyway, he often doesn't go to bed until 3 or 4 am. Then he gets up when he hears Myles awake and has a hard time falling back to sleep knowing everything he has to do. He's had so many appointments with recruiters, interviews and other things to take care of, which is great on one hand, but also exhausing to do all day and then go into work. And then to top it off, after all that, he'll be staying home with the kids all day tomorrow. I don't know how he does it all on such little sleep.
We're both thinking positively about his career job search and are hoping the right thing comes along soon. The big problem we're running into is a lot of people are wanting him to relocate. As most of you know, that'd be really hard for me. So keep praying that the right job...with the right hours, and really right pay...comes along soon. Derrick and I will both be SO appreciative and look at things so much differently now. We've both learned a lot.
Thanks to all of you for all of your support and kind words to keep us lifted up when we're down. I'm lucky to have a family I can count on.
Well, Gina is sleeping and I'm gonna try to get Myles to go to sleep here soon too so I can continue reading the book for our book club. And enjoy that quiet time!!!
Hope you all have a good night!!
The newness is wearing off though. Although, I guess I should be careful what I say, as the hours have worked out so well for Derrick to do his main job hunt since he has almost all day. He only has one more week to work second shift, and then he'll have to switch to first. Hopefully he'll still be able to get in enough hours, and have time for all the interviews/meetings.
I know these have been long days for both of us. I'm so proud of my husband and not only how hard he's working, but how positive he's staying while doing it. He's always been a night owl, and now that he's working until 1 am anyway, he often doesn't go to bed until 3 or 4 am. Then he gets up when he hears Myles awake and has a hard time falling back to sleep knowing everything he has to do. He's had so many appointments with recruiters, interviews and other things to take care of, which is great on one hand, but also exhausing to do all day and then go into work. And then to top it off, after all that, he'll be staying home with the kids all day tomorrow. I don't know how he does it all on such little sleep.
We're both thinking positively about his career job search and are hoping the right thing comes along soon. The big problem we're running into is a lot of people are wanting him to relocate. As most of you know, that'd be really hard for me. So keep praying that the right job...with the right hours, and really right pay...comes along soon. Derrick and I will both be SO appreciative and look at things so much differently now. We've both learned a lot.
Thanks to all of you for all of your support and kind words to keep us lifted up when we're down. I'm lucky to have a family I can count on.
Well, Gina is sleeping and I'm gonna try to get Myles to go to sleep here soon too so I can continue reading the book for our book club. And enjoy that quiet time!!!
Hope you all have a good night!!
Sunday, May 11, 2008
An update on our "church hopping"
This morning we went to Fairfield Church of Christ. My sitter grew up going to that church, and her family still does.
I cannot say we fell in love with it at first sight. However, we did both really like it. I think this one is at least worth devoting some time to before we decide for sure.
Both of the kids did great. When we picked Gina up we caught her still having a tea party with one of the care takers. It was so cute! They said she did great, which is not very common for her in a new place, so that was very encouraging.
We then went to pick up Myles. One of the teachers in there was a man, and he told us that he and Myles had bonded. Myles agreed (silently) and gave him a high five on the way out. Also a pleasant surprise and reaction for Mr. Slow to Warm Up.
The sermon was much more similar to John Wesley, which was a good thing, especially for Derrick. Today probably wasn't a "typical" Sunday for them since it was Mother's Day, but we did both enjoy it. It's always a little odd and uncomfortable being in a new place, not familiar with the structure of it all.
I would ultimately like to connect with other people my age, and I was a little surprised at how many older people were there (I don't mean older as in "older than us"...I mean older, like in their 70's), but there were some younger couples there as well. They also offer a lot of small groups, and that's probably where we'll connect.
Everyone was very warm and welcoming, and the fact the kids had a great time goes a long way with me.
So that's our update for now!
I cannot say we fell in love with it at first sight. However, we did both really like it. I think this one is at least worth devoting some time to before we decide for sure.
Both of the kids did great. When we picked Gina up we caught her still having a tea party with one of the care takers. It was so cute! They said she did great, which is not very common for her in a new place, so that was very encouraging.
We then went to pick up Myles. One of the teachers in there was a man, and he told us that he and Myles had bonded. Myles agreed (silently) and gave him a high five on the way out. Also a pleasant surprise and reaction for Mr. Slow to Warm Up.
The sermon was much more similar to John Wesley, which was a good thing, especially for Derrick. Today probably wasn't a "typical" Sunday for them since it was Mother's Day, but we did both enjoy it. It's always a little odd and uncomfortable being in a new place, not familiar with the structure of it all.
I would ultimately like to connect with other people my age, and I was a little surprised at how many older people were there (I don't mean older as in "older than us"...I mean older, like in their 70's), but there were some younger couples there as well. They also offer a lot of small groups, and that's probably where we'll connect.
Everyone was very warm and welcoming, and the fact the kids had a great time goes a long way with me.
So that's our update for now!
A couple sweet moments to remember:
Yesterday we rented a truck from Budget rental trucks, much to Myles delight. As the kids and I waited in the car for Derrick to complete the paperwork, Myles looked around and asked which truck we were going to get.
I pointed out the rental truck parked directly in front of us, and he said "that one? We're gonna get the "B" truck"? I had to smile as he noticed the word Budget on the truck. My sweet boy, so proud he recognizes his letters, couldn't wait for us to take home the "B" truck.
As we were getting ready for church this morning, Myles saw Derrick shaving. Myles asked if he could have "some shave". As I watched Derrick rub shaving cream on Myles' face and wipe it off stroke by stroke with a wash cloth, I wanted to get my camera to take a picture, but it was too sweet to walk away. They were both so happy.
Then, realizing we must be going somewhere, Myles said "Are we going to get a "B" truck again today? :)
Gina has learned to say no by shaking her head back and forth. It doesn't sound like that big of a deal, but for some reason she can crack all of us up when we ask her a question and her little head full of curls shakes back and forth. It's just so cute. That girl has some looks that could make a grown man cry.
Myles asked her if he could have a kiss, and like a true girl, she shook her head back and forth to say "no". Myles laughed and said "mommy, she's a-larry-ous". Hearing that made me crack up. Yes, Myles, she is hillarious. That's one mispronunciation I just can't correct yet.
These are the moments that seem too few and far between when we get caught up in the details of life. But when we actually allow ourselves to slow down and enjoy our lives instead of just going through the motions to get *through* each day, we can recognize and cherish these moments as they happen.
Thank you God for making me a mother. I often say to people "I love my kids more than you can imagine". But I can't say that to you. Not only can you imagine how much I love them, you know *exactly* how much. And you love me, your child, even more.
Thank you God for your love and for providing us with a day to slow down and enjoy some sweet moments together as a family. Please continue to draw me closer to you so that I may not only learn more about you, but so that I can also teach my children about you. I hope that by the time my children are my age they know you infinitely better than I do now.
Hope you all had a good day also!
Ally
I pointed out the rental truck parked directly in front of us, and he said "that one? We're gonna get the "B" truck"? I had to smile as he noticed the word Budget on the truck. My sweet boy, so proud he recognizes his letters, couldn't wait for us to take home the "B" truck.
As we were getting ready for church this morning, Myles saw Derrick shaving. Myles asked if he could have "some shave". As I watched Derrick rub shaving cream on Myles' face and wipe it off stroke by stroke with a wash cloth, I wanted to get my camera to take a picture, but it was too sweet to walk away. They were both so happy.
Then, realizing we must be going somewhere, Myles said "Are we going to get a "B" truck again today? :)
Gina has learned to say no by shaking her head back and forth. It doesn't sound like that big of a deal, but for some reason she can crack all of us up when we ask her a question and her little head full of curls shakes back and forth. It's just so cute. That girl has some looks that could make a grown man cry.
Myles asked her if he could have a kiss, and like a true girl, she shook her head back and forth to say "no". Myles laughed and said "mommy, she's a-larry-ous". Hearing that made me crack up. Yes, Myles, she is hillarious. That's one mispronunciation I just can't correct yet.
These are the moments that seem too few and far between when we get caught up in the details of life. But when we actually allow ourselves to slow down and enjoy our lives instead of just going through the motions to get *through* each day, we can recognize and cherish these moments as they happen.
Thank you God for making me a mother. I often say to people "I love my kids more than you can imagine". But I can't say that to you. Not only can you imagine how much I love them, you know *exactly* how much. And you love me, your child, even more.
Thank you God for your love and for providing us with a day to slow down and enjoy some sweet moments together as a family. Please continue to draw me closer to you so that I may not only learn more about you, but so that I can also teach my children about you. I hope that by the time my children are my age they know you infinitely better than I do now.
Hope you all had a good day also!
Ally
Happy Mother's Day 2008!
To all of those mother's out there, I hope you've had a blessed day!
I found a couple of poem's I really enjoyed I thought I'd share. I hope one of them speaks to you as they did me.
Mother's Love
Her love is like an island
In life's ocean, vast and wide
A peaceful, quiet shelter
From the wind, the rain, the tide.
'Tis bound on the north by Hope,
By Patience on the West,
By tender Counsel on the South
And on the East by Rest.
Above it like a beacon light
Shine Faith, and Truth, and Prayer;
And thro' the changing scenes of life
I find a haven there.
- Author Unknown
Real Mothers
Real Mothers don't eat quiche; they don't have time to make it.
Real Mothers know that their kitchen utensils are probably in the sandbox.
Real Mothers often have sticky floors, filthy ovens and happy kids.
Real Mothers know that dried playdough doesn't come out of shag carpet.
Real Mothers sometimes ask "why me?" and get their answer when a little voice says, "because I love you best."
Real Mothers know that a child's growth is not measured by height or years or grade. . .
It is marked by the progression of Mama to Mommy to Mother.
- Author Unknown.
God's Masterpiece Is Mother
God took the fragrance of a flower...
The majesty of a tree...
The gentleness of morning dew...
The calm of a quiet sea...
The beauty of the twilight hour...
The soul of a starry night...
The laughter of a rippling brook...
The grace of a bird in flight...
Then God fashioned from these things
A creation like no other,
And when his masterpiece was through
He called it simply - Mother.
- Herbert Farnham
Parents' Prayer
O Father, our hearts are filled
with a great happiness.
For you have seen fit
to bless us with a child.
You have sent us one of
your own little angels
to love and protect.
We are aware of the great
responsibility that is ours
and we are humble.
We realize the honor
you have bestowed upon us
and we are grateful.
Great that we may be
ever patient and loving,
living in such a way
as to set a shining example
for our little one.
And as we seek to set
those tiny feet upon the paths
of righteousness, be ever with us.
May our home be a place of love
and harmony where your Spirit
is ever present. And may
our child find you in each
activity of our family life.
Bless us, we pray,
and walk beside us through
all our days together. Amen.
- Norman Vincent Peale
These are the Years
These are the years, the gentle years,
the soft and sentimental years
when wee little fingers
reach and touch
and little eyes gaze
with wonder and trust,
when you love so tenderly
and so so much,
these are the gentle years.
These are the years, the rainbow years,
the quiet, walk-on-tiptoes years,
the years of laughter
and smiles and sighs
when both of you watch
with misty eyes
the tiny bed
where a cherub lies,
these are the rainbow years.
These are the years, the tender years,
the blissful, sweet-surrender years,
when your little treasure
from above
is the soul and purpose
and center of
your plans and dreams
and dearest love,
these are the tender years.
- Barbara Burrow
I found a couple of poem's I really enjoyed I thought I'd share. I hope one of them speaks to you as they did me.
Mother's Love
Her love is like an island
In life's ocean, vast and wide
A peaceful, quiet shelter
From the wind, the rain, the tide.
'Tis bound on the north by Hope,
By Patience on the West,
By tender Counsel on the South
And on the East by Rest.
Above it like a beacon light
Shine Faith, and Truth, and Prayer;
And thro' the changing scenes of life
I find a haven there.
- Author Unknown
Real Mothers
Real Mothers don't eat quiche; they don't have time to make it.
Real Mothers know that their kitchen utensils are probably in the sandbox.
Real Mothers often have sticky floors, filthy ovens and happy kids.
Real Mothers know that dried playdough doesn't come out of shag carpet.
Real Mothers sometimes ask "why me?" and get their answer when a little voice says, "because I love you best."
Real Mothers know that a child's growth is not measured by height or years or grade. . .
It is marked by the progression of Mama to Mommy to Mother.
- Author Unknown.
God's Masterpiece Is Mother
God took the fragrance of a flower...
The majesty of a tree...
The gentleness of morning dew...
The calm of a quiet sea...
The beauty of the twilight hour...
The soul of a starry night...
The laughter of a rippling brook...
The grace of a bird in flight...
Then God fashioned from these things
A creation like no other,
And when his masterpiece was through
He called it simply - Mother.
- Herbert Farnham
Parents' Prayer
O Father, our hearts are filled
with a great happiness.
For you have seen fit
to bless us with a child.
You have sent us one of
your own little angels
to love and protect.
We are aware of the great
responsibility that is ours
and we are humble.
We realize the honor
you have bestowed upon us
and we are grateful.
Great that we may be
ever patient and loving,
living in such a way
as to set a shining example
for our little one.
And as we seek to set
those tiny feet upon the paths
of righteousness, be ever with us.
May our home be a place of love
and harmony where your Spirit
is ever present. And may
our child find you in each
activity of our family life.
Bless us, we pray,
and walk beside us through
all our days together. Amen.
- Norman Vincent Peale
These are the Years
These are the years, the gentle years,
the soft and sentimental years
when wee little fingers
reach and touch
and little eyes gaze
with wonder and trust,
when you love so tenderly
and so so much,
these are the gentle years.
These are the years, the rainbow years,
the quiet, walk-on-tiptoes years,
the years of laughter
and smiles and sighs
when both of you watch
with misty eyes
the tiny bed
where a cherub lies,
these are the rainbow years.
These are the years, the tender years,
the blissful, sweet-surrender years,
when your little treasure
from above
is the soul and purpose
and center of
your plans and dreams
and dearest love,
these are the tender years.
- Barbara Burrow
Friday, May 9, 2008
A scare with Gina
Gina scared us today. She,for some still unknown reason, kept falling at the sitters yesterday. Not a normal "toddler fall" a straight back "I'm gonna faint" fall. I was trying to be calm, but when Cindy called and said she had just fallen straight back into her TV and hit her head, I decided to take her to the doctor.
He was very thorough and didn't see any immediate explanation (ear infection, etc), but also didn't see any obvious signs of concern (dialted pupils, etc).
So, he told me to keep an eye on it for now, but told me what signs to watch for and what signs meant come back to the doctor and which meant go straight to the ER. So of course I was very scared.
Mom watched her the rest of the day though, and she seemed to be fine. I still feel like she's 'waddling' more than normal (shifting her weight side to side a lot more than usual), and just falling in general more than she usually does, but maybe I'm just being paranoid.
The kids are both home with daddy today, and he also seems to think she is acting okay. I don't know if it's my mommy gut, or just extreme mommy worry, but I'm just not so sure.
I'm just hoping she doesn't do anything like this again, and I PRAY that I don't see any of the signs that he told me to watch for that meant head straight to the ER. If I do, Derrick might as well call 911 and request a double transport, because I'll be needing medical assistance myself.
It's amazing when our kids scare us how INTENSE our instincts and love for them become.
So some extra prayers for Gina would be much appreciated!!
He was very thorough and didn't see any immediate explanation (ear infection, etc), but also didn't see any obvious signs of concern (dialted pupils, etc).
So, he told me to keep an eye on it for now, but told me what signs to watch for and what signs meant come back to the doctor and which meant go straight to the ER. So of course I was very scared.
Mom watched her the rest of the day though, and she seemed to be fine. I still feel like she's 'waddling' more than normal (shifting her weight side to side a lot more than usual), and just falling in general more than she usually does, but maybe I'm just being paranoid.
The kids are both home with daddy today, and he also seems to think she is acting okay. I don't know if it's my mommy gut, or just extreme mommy worry, but I'm just not so sure.
I'm just hoping she doesn't do anything like this again, and I PRAY that I don't see any of the signs that he told me to watch for that meant head straight to the ER. If I do, Derrick might as well call 911 and request a double transport, because I'll be needing medical assistance myself.
It's amazing when our kids scare us how INTENSE our instincts and love for them become.
So some extra prayers for Gina would be much appreciated!!
Monday, May 5, 2008
More updates and prayers
as we all know life in the Lawary family is anything but boring.
Let's see. Life has had a lot of twist and turns for us lately.
We have decided that the Vineyard is not the right place for us, but after doing some more investigating and talking to people, I think we found a church that will be what we need. We are going to go for the first time this Sunday. I have prayed that God will lead us to our new church home, so hopefully this will be it. I'm looking forward to getting settled and plugged in lately.
I have been continuing to read GOOTP and love it. I've learned so much. I was listening to K-Love today (which, btw, Kim I never answered you...K-Love is my favorite channel!!) and it was talking about how just as the middle of the road is a dangerous place for animals, it is for Christians as well. God wants us to be all in or all out. You can't hang out in the middle, choosing when you call on God, choosing when you listen to him, choosing to just spend an hour a week with him and think you're going to really know him and have a relationship. I just love that analogy. I want to be "all in" and am getting closer and closer to that every day.
Not all of you know this, but Derrick is now done with Waffle House and will be working for Kopco 2nd shift temporarily until he is able to replace his career position. Please keep him and our entire family in your prayers for him to be led to the right position and for many doors to open for us. We are so thankful to even have the opportunity for this to be a possibility for him, and neither of us take that lightly.
Derrick and I have also been praying for God to not only bring us closer to him, but also to grow closer to each other. My eyes have been opened lately and I've realized how far we've wandered away from each other...just slowly, over a period of time...until we got to a point where our relationship was too much like a "business" and not focused on love and respect as much as it should be. We want to put God first in our lives, and ask him to help us do the work that needs to be done to totally reunite us and make us as happy as we both deserve to be, and also the best possible role models we can be.
Lastly, we want to completely open ourselves up to do what needs to be done to have financial security and peace. It may not be easy, and I know we may not get the answers I want, but clearly we haven't done well when left to our own devices, so it's obviously time to let God steer that ship for a minute. It seems like right now, every time there is an "up" there is an equal or greater "down". But I know that if we have our eyes, hearts and ears open he will guide us to do what needs to be done, and with a huge leap of faith and a lot of hard work, we will get to where we need to be.
So forgive me for not blogging as much as I could be or for not commenting on other blogs like I'd like too. Right now I'm going through a period of change and it's exciting but exhausting, so bear (bare?..holy cow I'm tired) with me. I'm trying to spend my "free time" reading, journaling, etc so that I can do the work on myself that needs to be done. I know you all understand!
I love you all. Off to do my jornal and GO TO BED!!! It's been another (too) fast weekend and I know I'm going to be exhausted in the morning!
Let's see. Life has had a lot of twist and turns for us lately.
We have decided that the Vineyard is not the right place for us, but after doing some more investigating and talking to people, I think we found a church that will be what we need. We are going to go for the first time this Sunday. I have prayed that God will lead us to our new church home, so hopefully this will be it. I'm looking forward to getting settled and plugged in lately.
I have been continuing to read GOOTP and love it. I've learned so much. I was listening to K-Love today (which, btw, Kim I never answered you...K-Love is my favorite channel!!) and it was talking about how just as the middle of the road is a dangerous place for animals, it is for Christians as well. God wants us to be all in or all out. You can't hang out in the middle, choosing when you call on God, choosing when you listen to him, choosing to just spend an hour a week with him and think you're going to really know him and have a relationship. I just love that analogy. I want to be "all in" and am getting closer and closer to that every day.
Not all of you know this, but Derrick is now done with Waffle House and will be working for Kopco 2nd shift temporarily until he is able to replace his career position. Please keep him and our entire family in your prayers for him to be led to the right position and for many doors to open for us. We are so thankful to even have the opportunity for this to be a possibility for him, and neither of us take that lightly.
Derrick and I have also been praying for God to not only bring us closer to him, but also to grow closer to each other. My eyes have been opened lately and I've realized how far we've wandered away from each other...just slowly, over a period of time...until we got to a point where our relationship was too much like a "business" and not focused on love and respect as much as it should be. We want to put God first in our lives, and ask him to help us do the work that needs to be done to totally reunite us and make us as happy as we both deserve to be, and also the best possible role models we can be.
Lastly, we want to completely open ourselves up to do what needs to be done to have financial security and peace. It may not be easy, and I know we may not get the answers I want, but clearly we haven't done well when left to our own devices, so it's obviously time to let God steer that ship for a minute. It seems like right now, every time there is an "up" there is an equal or greater "down". But I know that if we have our eyes, hearts and ears open he will guide us to do what needs to be done, and with a huge leap of faith and a lot of hard work, we will get to where we need to be.
So forgive me for not blogging as much as I could be or for not commenting on other blogs like I'd like too. Right now I'm going through a period of change and it's exciting but exhausting, so bear (bare?..holy cow I'm tired) with me. I'm trying to spend my "free time" reading, journaling, etc so that I can do the work on myself that needs to be done. I know you all understand!
I love you all. Off to do my jornal and GO TO BED!!! It's been another (too) fast weekend and I know I'm going to be exhausted in the morning!
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